it started at the gym showers, I noticed that late 20s guy looking at me and kinda staring. As rude as it is, I felt kinda flattered he then smiled and went to care with his business. After i finished and got dressed he approached me and asked if i want to get a drink or something and I said yes ( i didn't know i'm into guys too back then but thought it's a free drink why not). After getting our drinks and had a little chat he asked me if you want to join him at his place and complete our chat ( he was tall but not big so i thought it's fine if something happened.. don't know why i said yes this time)..