‘m in my mid-30’s now but when I was in my late 20’s I got into permaculture and gardening in a really big way. I started a garden in my house and had this vision of eventually growing all my own food. I loved the idea of knowing where my food came from, being responsible for my own well-being and survival. Anyway, the permaculture community in my town was pretty small but managed to emcompass a few different age groups. I was getitng a lot of help and advice from people around and near town.
I was also having quite a bit of sex at this time in my life. I was working out AND doing garden work so my body was pretty tight, my life was pretty rich with interesting things to say on dates, and lots of guys wanted my attention. I was meeting a new guy practically every week, mostly guys my age or slightly older or younger. I met these guys at bars or on OKCupid and really having a good time with the variety of guys I could find. Even if I didn’t like everything about a particular guy, I could have a good time with him anyway because I knew he wouldn’t be the only one!