‘Nudge’

It was 9 pm on a Thursday. The bar was sparsely occupied. That wasn’t unusual for a weeknight. With a 90% heterosexual male patronage in attendance, the odds of ‘getting lucky’ with a female appeared to be pretty low. The sole lady drinking at the counter was quite attractive but had politely refused all offers of personal attention. Her unspoken vibe conveyed that she wasn’t interested in any of the ‘hungry sharks circling the water’. The message was clearly received. Respectfully, they gave her space.

The only other female present, sat alone in a dimly-lit booth in the back. None of the would-be Romeos present bothered with her either. Sitting that far away from the bartender was an even stronger indication she wanted to be left alone. It just wasn’t anyone’s night, by the looks of things. Then an unexpected thing happened. The lady from the booth rose up, walked over to the solitary woman at the bar and sat down beside her on the next stool. More than a couple of the hopeful guys snorted or rolled their eyes in mock disgust. They hadn’t counted on ‘that’.

‘Acceptance’

After his divorce, Joe found himself back in the awkward world of online dating. It was strange to be ‘on the market’ again after the long hiatus. The single world changed drastically in his absence. The dramatic shift in frankness made him feel old and out-of-place. He chatted with a number of interesting ladies but there were no meaningful connections; at least not at first. On a number of occasions he was genuinely stunned that some of them revealed highly intimate, sexual preferences almost immediately.

It simply wasn’t anything he expected to learn about anyone he’d just met. Certainly not lurid details like that from prospective lovemaking partners. He barely knew these people! It was startling to witness total strangers being so candid about deeply personal, intimate matters on the very first date. It was a brand new era of full disclosure and direct sexual openness, apparently.

Joe assumed at this later stage in their lives, they were finally comfortable expressing what they truest desired in relationships, and more importantly, in the bedroom. On the surface it made sense. Being fully upfront saved valuable time about relevant things. Regardless, he was still taken aback by their candid forthrightness. One particularly shocking desire kept reoccurring in their unexpurgated conversations.

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