How I became addicted to a woman’s orgasm in 1975

Ok the title gives it away…..I’m older ( not old ). Or as I prefer to think of it….mature and experienced LOL. If you just have to know I’m 61 years old.

This is my story of how I became addicted to the female orgasm and why I have spent my life chasing them. While my friends developed hobbies during their life – my hobby is sex and the pursuit of the ultimate orgasm. Not mine – I can cum anytime anywhere, fast or slow. No my pursuit is for a woman’s orgasm – to play a part ( big or small ) in her achieving a body shaking, trembling, toe curling, full body orgasm that radiates out from her pussy. To be a spectator / participant with her is, to me, the ultimate rush.

Anyway to the story. I know it was a long time ago but it left such a permanent impression on me that I remember it like it happened moments ago.

Gave my wife’s panties to my bi Female friend [MF]

I think like most married guys I’d love to watch my wife have sex with another woman. Unfortunately she has given me a pretty definite no the times I brought it up.

One evening not too long ago I happened to be having drinks with a bi female friend who has been quite vocal in her desires toward my wife ( at least with me ). I can’t remember how our conversation became centred on panties but she was really animated in her need for two pairs of my wife’s used panties. She needed to smell and taste the essence of my wife.

At first I laughed it off and told her no but she was very insistent and made me an offer I couldn’t refuse – she was going to use them to masturbate and would take pics and give me them back to me soiled by her as well. Now as much as she wants my wife, I want her ( but she only wants my wife not me ) so she knew that would make me comply.

The next day we met up and I handed her two pairs of my wife’s thong panties. I swear her hand was shaking with excitement when she took them.

I flogged her and I liked it……because she really really liked it. [MF]

An admission: I am not a Dom. I have dabbled in bondage with various partners ( who hasn’t ?? ) but not in the true BDSM sense – more just restraining for the feeling of helplessness and to add a different element to sex and orgasms. I’ve tied up women and been tied up myself – all in good fun. But I had never restrained a woman and then used an instrument to inflict pain. Not my thing.

But here I was, having been escorted into the bedroom by her cuckold husband, surveying the scene in front of me – on the bed was a flogger, paddle, leather wrist cuffs, and a few other little things. He had settled into his chair in the corner. On the floor in front of me she was kneeling naked with her head down and her arms outstretched in front and above her head, hands clasped together.

“ I need to be punished “ she said in a sort of whisper.

The first time I met her she was in a dog crate………

One of the craziest sexcapades I’ve had recently began a few years ago and sadly ended with Covid.

It all began when a guy I met asked if I wanted a blowjob from his wife. He described her as 30 with blonde hair, toned body, and a pretty face ( which I discovered much later was all true ). I had not met him before nor had I ever seen his wife but being a horny man with a sex life at home bordering on a dead bedroom, I jumped at the chance for some decent head.

When I showed up at their house he led me to a curtained off room and gave me the 3 rules – no cumming in her mouth ( on her face was good just not in her mouth/throat ), no anal, use a condom to fuck her pussy. So I was given the green light to fuck her if I wanted to go beyond a blowjob!