In all of my serious relationships there is one thing that always seems to be the problem. Lack of sex after the “cupcake phase”. I always get complaints from my male partners after this phase like they feel I an no long attached or attracted to them because I am not as open or don’t want sex as much as I did before but that’s hasn’t been the case. I just don’t feel in the mood for that type of connection. And the more they ask the more irritated I get and then I really don’t want to have any type of sex. How do I fix this ? It never fails to be the main reason why my relationships fail. Is this normal?