Author: newswincpladventures

First solo swing experience

As my wife Lindsey and I worked through some challenges several months ago in figuring out exactly what we wanted to pursue as a swinging couple, and what we were comfortable with, the idea of an open marriage, and freedom to go on solo dates, had come up several times. While we aren’t ready to go that far just yet, it was clear after our last play date with Kaila and Conner that our chemistry and trust is continuing to grow with them. Afterwards, Lindsey asked me what I thought about the idea of playing separately with Kaila and Conner, where we could each play solo with the other, rather than as a group, whenever our individual schedules and desires allowed.

While I wasn’t completely opposed to that idea, I thought it might be better to ease into that type of arrangement, possibly with Lindsey and I going on separate dates with Kaila and Conner, but at the same time, as if we were swapping spouses for the night. Lindsey loved the idea, and she eventually suggested it to Conner. Conner was immediately down for it, and while Kaila was a little more apprehensive, she eventually agreed that it sounded intriguing. Read more »

Wife’s first bi experience

After our initial play date with Conner and Kaila, I fully expected that it was going to be a one-time meeting. After all, Conner hardly seemed to be Lindsey’s type, and Lindsey even admitted afterward that she wasn’t initially attracted to him.

So I was surprised when later in the week, it was actually my wife who suggested we play with them again. We ended up meeting them again the following weekend, and over the past several weeks, we’ve actually met up with them a total of four times now. Lindsey says she enjoys the fact we all get along well together and can enjoy each other’s company even when we aren’t having sex, and admits that she does love Conner’s huge, young cock. I’m not small by any means, but I certainly can’t make her feel how Conner does in that regard. But I also suspect there’s a bit more to it. I think Lindsey actually enjoys knowing that she’s a bit out of Conner’s league, and that she’s basically using him as her fuck toy. I also think, knowing her previously stated reservations about seeing me have sex with other women, that she’s at least slightly more comfortable knowing she’s both fitter and more attractive than Kaila, to the point where she doesn’t see Kaila as a threat. Read more »

First partner swapping experience

In the weeks after my wife Lindsey and I enjoyed our first threesome experience with her CrossFit friend Brady, we continued to chat about what we wanted to pursue next. We talked about Brady joining us again sometime, and also about finally creating an online profile to look for other men or possibly couples.

I also learned, after seeing some of Lindsey’s texts, that she had fucked Brady at least two more times since our first encounter. We hadn’t talked about Lindsey having permission to play on her own, but it didn’t really bother me. I wish she would have told me herself, but I was glad she was becoming more free sexually and I thought it bode well for us as we continued to dive deeper into the swinging lifestyle.

Lindsey’s first time with Brady had been after a workout, in the hallway bathroom outside their gym. The second time was in Brady’s car, and apparently had created some drama, according to their texts. Brady told Lindsey that before the two of them had started fucking, he was already hooking up with another girl from the gym. They weren’t dating or anything, just FWB, but she had seen him hooking up with Lindsey in his car, and was apparently not too happy that he was fucking another woman from the gym. Read more »

First time sharing my wife

As my my wife Lindsey and I cuddled in bed several weeks ago after a round of passionate and satisfying sex, we playfully bantered about how good we were at it. Lindsey, as she’s done many times before, jokingly pointed out that neither of us would really know if we were actually quite bad, given that it had been more than 15 years since we had been with other people in college. We are now 36 and 35 and have been married for 10 years.

This time, rather than laughing it off as I had in the past, I joked that maybe we should give swinging a try; then we would know for sure if we were good or not. It was an obvious joke, or at least I thought it was, so I was surprised when Lindsey gave a somewhat serious answer.

“Do you really think you’d be Ok seeing me having sex with another guy,” she asked? Read more »