I am very happy. Indeed, I still grow hard as my wife of 15 years walks around in the buff or puts her thigh over mine in the predawn light. She’s told me many times that its pheromones, but I know its more. No children, we agreed early on that career, our relationship and children would force us to give a priority to each. It was not a compromise that we were willing to make. We’ve seen relationship after relationship fall away as soon as the children leave the nest, the glue. Like a house that has not been lived in for many years, some relationships can’t be fixed, just gutted or torn down. I trust her and she me, over the years we’ve grown together and always treat each other with love and respect.