Let me tell you a story – my wife (F28) and I (M29) were having a late night discussion one day about getting more out of our sex life. She was 6 months pregnant at the time, her pregnancy symptoms had settled down, and she was ready to get back into it.
She started off by telling me that she had started to feel her sex drive pick up over the last few days, and had been watching porn every morning and then using her suction cup dildo in the shower once she got up. I asked her to show me what porn she enjoyed watching, and she told me she was really into this fetish called ‘free use’. She eagerly explained the basic premise; essentially, she enjoyed the idea of being vulnerable to another person who could take advantage of her and use her sexually for their own use and gratification without seeking her express consent. Essentially, she would be a passive object that could be fondled, manipulated, penetrated and abused at another person’s full discretion.
I asked her what she got out of this arrangement, and she said that it was complete physical and mental subservience to another person. Having her physical sensations entirely controlled by another person, and for that person’s satisfaction.