Some terminology questions…

expected preface: not sure if this is the rid sub for this, bbbuuuutttt

So I've been writing this stuff for a while, and I'd like to imagine I'm pretty okayish. I've listened to a few podcasts and read a few blogs about some suggestions as to what to do and some as to what not to do, and along with that, I've started following my own "rules", for lack of a better word. You know, all the "don't use the same word for dick multiple times in a row", "don't use medical/scientific terminology- I don't want to know that she nuzzled up underneath his testicles", things like that, but…

…well, in the past, I've almost exclusively written m-m stuff. I know how to handle a cock, how to describe one, how to term it in literotica without it sounding awkward or ungainly or just plain dumb. In the few times I have included a female, it's usually nothing more than a handjob or oral or something of the sort.