>Pre-note, skip if you want the juicy stuff:
I have been in non-monogamous relationships since 2014. Am now 35, married, swinger and I like to write. Most of the stories are my experiences, wherever I can I’ll try to alter them to make them better. And maybe I get inspired to write about my fantasies.
**Setting**: I met a Dom at a munch with whom it clicked very well. This was our fourth and last encounter because he found a monogamous girlfriend after this. It was a good night and it’s a long story. You can find the story of the 3rd encounter here: [My Dom is getting more stern with me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/iril9q/my_dom_is_getting_more_stern_with_me_spanking_and/)
I come in and we start off just talking on the couch. After a while he says: “You’re wearing too much, take everything off except for any lingerie you’re wearing.” Of course I comply and I’m allowed to sit on the couch again. But he directs me to lie with my head in his lap because he wants to talk about the fact that he met someone which could go somewhere further and it could mean that we’d have to stop our evenings. The idea makes me sad, but I care about him and I want him to be happy and I can’t give him a girlfriend. I’m just his submissive.