I was (M) 29 years old at the time. I just went through my second divorce in seven years. I was sad and depressed. My buddy took me to a local karaoke bar to get my mind off of things. That’s when I saw a very beautiful 25 year old (f).
I was so nervous trying to get the curage to talk to her because she was with all of her friends. So I finally got the nerve to buy her a drink, hoping it would break the ice. I approached the bar and waited to place my order, hearing nothing but the sound of my heart beating in my ears. Finally, the bar tender came to take my order. I ordered a Bud Light for me and told him that I was paying for this girl’s next drink and pointed her out. I told the bar tender to bring deliver her drink first, then mine so he could tell me what her reaction was, then went back to my table. I was so nervous as he gave her the drink and motioned at me as he told her that I ordered the drink for her. I kept thinking it was a cheesy move only seen in movies. She smiled at me and tipped her bottle of Bud Light in a way as to say thank you. The bar tender then handed me my beer and said “Bad news bro, she is wearing an engagement ring and this is her bridal shower.” I thought oh well at least I tried.