I met J [24M] on Grindr, so I was a bit nervous. The culture of Grindr isn’t really kind to my body type or desires for intimacy (not just fucking).
He towered over me at 6’4” when he came through my door. I was immediately intimidated. He sat on the couch and got comfortable while I fiddled with my TV. We had planned on playing Smash Bros together. I felt how obviously awkward and shy I was being, but I couldn’t do anything about it—I always get really nervous meeting new people which is why I don’t go to others’ places via Grindr.
As everything started working, I sat down beside him. We played Smash for a while and though my cat got very comfortable around him, I was still pretty stiff. He tried to break my wall down by putting his legs across my lap and kissing me. It wasn’t very effective.
After a little more time, he indicated he was done playing, so I got up and got him to follow me to my bedroom. It was time for cuddles and he wanted to know if I wanted clothes on or off. He was really considerate and kind like that the whole time, always asking if I was comfortable.