This would have been about ten years ago, when I was 25. I met this guy at a very sex-friendly con event, he wasn’t even part of the convention, he was just staying in the hotel, liked the energy of the events, and decided to join in.
Rumors were swirling about this guy, who was he? He had a vaguely dangerously vibe to him, just from sheer dint of the fact that he wasn’t part of the con. He was about 35, wearing a business suit and had a quiet intensity. Brown hair. Tall, kinda lanky. He had a haunted, hungry look, but only in brief flashes. Mostly he seems reserved. He seemed so vanilla, that his willingness to involve himself in the frenetic energy of us 20something sex fiends was notable. He was intense, aloof, and had an unsexy old man name like Walter or Bernard. He watched his surroundings like he was studying us.