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10-Jun-21
I don’t know if you’ve picked up on this yet, but touch is immensely important to me. Touch in the sense of intimate physical contact with my partners, whatever form that takes. Somehow as a society we’ve sexualized touch to the point that the only reason for two non-related adults to touch each other is for the purposes of sexual gratification. And certainly if that’s where the night takes us then by all means let it happen; intentionally putting the brakes on arousal that arises from touching each other is just as silly as having an expectation of sex just because we’re all piled on the couch together in my opinion. I mean, there’s three of us here…we won’t all be on the same page every time we’re together. One or two of us can experience arousal and sexual release without changing a mellow, intimate evening into a hardcore fuckfest. It all comes down to reading each other and letting the mood ebb and flow however it may.