Quick note: I wrote this for a new partner a few days after our first date (!) as our messaging revealed she was interested in getting closer to this kind of fantasy but didn’t know how to start thinking about it.
The story arc is pretty conventional, I think? But hopefully you enjoy it anyway.
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Imagine you’ve decided to line up a Tinder date with somebody new for Friday, and we match. On paper, I check all the right boxes for you, and you’re excited to see if the chemistry is there.
Our messaging goes really well — you like how I think and talk, so we start trading pictures. You love how into you and your sexuality I am, how much I seem to want to please you. And the pictures I send you… you like what you see. You’re excited to see how it all plays out in person. By Wednesday, you can feel yourself getting turned on by the thought of being with me, how my broad shoulders would make you feel so petite, how wrapping your arms around my back to pull me deeper inside you would bring you such ecstatic pleasure. You spend a fair bit of time Wednesday and Thursday getting yourself off in hot, mad anticipation…