“I’ve been trying to talk my wife into experiences with other people and she is interested but hasn’t fully agreed to, yet.”
The response to my ad offering a sensual massage piqued my interest immediately. I’m not a masseuse. I have no official training. However, since my ex really enjoyed massages I had taken the time to study techniques on my own. Eventually, I discovered sensual massage and spent a few months learning about that and practicing on my (very appreciative) ex. It turns out that having large, strong hands is an asset when giving a massage.
That relationship was long over at this point, but my enjoyment of giving a great massage endured. I had taken to posting ads offering them for fun, no strings (or money) attached. My pursuits had led to quite a few enjoyable evenings.
This, however, was a new wrinkle. It had not occurred to me that a couple would be interested in the female half receiving a massage. I was interested, so I read on. I’ll call him Ned. Ned wrote that he hoped a massage might lead her to want to do more. He hoped it might end with her having sex with another man.