I find the idea of a swingers club fascinating. But I also have to admit I find them a bit scary to just go there on my own (at the one nearest to me women can go alone, men must be part of a couple). The other part is that a lot of people who go there are a lot older than me. While age difference isn’t a big problem for me it is something that makes it a bit tensive for me.
I was talking to a fwb of mine (Let’s call him Dave) in a bar and we talked about sexual things that were on our bucket list. I told him about my fantasy of going to a swingers club, being around people having sex while having sex yourself, the casualness of sex, all those things. He told me he had thought about it too but for a different reason. In his words ‘swingerclubs are an amazing opportunity to fuck Milfs.” We talked about it some more and decided to look into it so that we could go together.