I love taking a nap with a toy or two inside my holes, usually after edging myself for a while to get things going. It gives me the naughtiest dreams, which my husband, “Ryan,” enjoys hearing about when he wakes me up (and re-enacting when possible).
Occasionally, if he doesn’t have a day full of meetings to attend, he’ll gently remove one of the toys while I’m still asleep and fuck me awake. This is my favorite, since it intensifies the dream before I fully wake up and gives me the best orgasms.
This is, obviously, fully consensual and something we’ve talked about extensively before trying. All I have to do to signal that I’m not up for it is say something before I go to sleep or wear underwear/pj bottoms for my nap. Basically: if my bottom half is accessible, then I’m open to having sex – those are my terms regardless of whether or not I’m awake. I’ve mostly been wearing robes and nightgowns during quarantine. ;)