It’s funny how you can end up with a partner where each of you has some vaguely undefined aspect to your sexuality that when combined with the other, and teased out over time becomes a dominant theme in your sex life. Perhaps a little like the synergy of a Bonnie & Clyde.
In my case, I’ve always found the raw sexuality and uncensored lust of my girlfriend to be a big turn on. Creating a safe environment where she is free to express those fantasies and now actually act on them has taken our relationship to new and uncharted heights.
It started out with provocative “truth or dare” texts, the exchange of titillating “selfies”, and in some cases a recounting and sharing of some of our past sexual experiences.
This evolved into our visiting on occasion a sex club where we had sex in front of other people, and watched other people having sex in front of us. I think we were both surprised by how powerful the exhibitionist aspect of this was even relative to the voyeuristic aspect.
Through these exchanges, it became clear that one of my girlfriend’s most powerful fantasies was the idea of being appreciated and intoxicated by male energies, meaning the idea of other men watching her engage in sexual activity or in fact other men joining in that sexual activity.
Because as I mentioned my girlfriend’s uncensored raw sexuality and fantasies really turn me on, and because I am a confident man, I actively support the expression of these fantasies.
I’ve helped arrange and watched as she had an “erotic massage” which began as a regular massage but evolved into her having her pussy expertly licked by the masseur to multiple orgasms while she intermittently sucked on my own cock.
I’ve eaten her pussy to multiple orgasms in a pool in front of several appreciative men.
I’ve watched her get her tits sucked on and her pussy eaten by another man while sitting on the edge of a hot tub in a public place.
I’ve watched her get her asshole licked while sucking on my cock.
I’ve watched her suck on a cock while I fucked her from behind in true spit roast fashion.
I’ve watched her invite a guy back to our room in order that she might suck on his cock.
I’ve watched her squat down and go back and forth between my cock and another.
All of these episodes have super charged our sex life and are recounted or fantasized about during our own subsequent sex.
What’s next? Where is this headed? Probably in the not to distant future should an opportunity present itself I’m going to watch her get fucked by another cock. We’ve talked about what positions she would like me to watch her fuck in – from behind, reverse cowgirl, and him on top – and whether I would just watch and reclaim her pussy at the end of her fuck, or whether I would participate the whole time. A bit of both I would expect as I do like to sit back and watch her “in lust” but sometimes I can’t help myself and need to get my cock in her mouth or pussy.
All I know is that its a solid and super charged relationship and it’s been going for 15 years.
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/119jh1z/the_evolution_of_a_hotwife_mfm