I (26F) never considered myself kinky, until I’ve started trying out and experimenting. I never thought I’d like it, I even thought most of kinks are kind of weird.
When I talked for the first time to someone who has a specific kink and when I saw how aroused they’ve got by talking about it, imagining and fantasizing, it really made me want to try it out. After experiencing some kinks, I feel like I’ve been caged my whole life and now I’m finally free! It feels so good that I’m not affraid of my own thoughts and sexual creativity anymore. It makes me kind of sad when I think about how most people will never let their creative, hidden fantasies come to the surface because it’s still a taboo.
Do you experiment with kinks and if you do, what do you enjoy the most? Are you sometimes affraid of being judged if you decide to talk about it with your partners?
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/sispd7/the_more_i_experiment_with_kinks_the_more_i_want
I never stop experimenting. I’ll try anything twice, in case the first time was a fluke. Never stop evolving.
I enjoy pegging. I do fear judgment. The last partner I had that I shared this with repeatedly would call me gay
I went to an orgy this weekend in another city. I met someone that was telling me about his kinky stuff he brought with him. He said that he brought a spreader bar with him. I mentioned that I had always wanted to be put into one of those and have someone use a vibrator on me. well, thats exactly what he did!! he also used rope to tie my hands to a chair so that I couldn’t move, it was the most AMAZING sexual experience i have ever had. i liked it so much he put me in it a second time (after I rested from the first go around) and while one girl pulled my hair and another girl came over and slapped my tits (I have bruises on me from the experience which make me wet everytime i see them now). so now i am thinking about getting together with one of the people that was there that night that lives in my city that i trust implicitly to explore this more.