Secretly, I was always a size-queen ever since I first saw a really hung guy naked in a man’s locker room (accidentally walked in during swim practice).
I have been with the same guy for 6 years now (it’s great and I love him), but before that I only ever slept with two guys. All of them are average-sized. I don’t mind that during sex, but I always found big hard cocks beautiful. Especially if they’re clean, maintained and elegantly shaped. Somehow, I admire them instantly upon seeing them.
So, a guy sent me a facebook request the other day, and I accidentally accepted it. He sent me a dick pic – it was not only huge, but looked perfect. We ended up flirting (even though I tried my best to resist it), and long story short we turned on our webcams and masturbated and teased each other. He not only knew the right things to say, but also the way he said them – he was so dominant, strict and kept telling me what to do in such an authoritative way that totally worked for me. Ended up cumming 4 or 5 times before he too came. It was the hottest experience I ever had. I never had such intense pleasure even from sex. However, when he came, a few seconds later guilt and shame set in. I started thinking – how could I do this to my bf?
Would this be considered cheating? I feel like a bad person. But, I just didn’t have it in me to resist. He was sooo hot, and he keeps asking me to do it again. I don’t know if I should.
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ozxkgt/f25_does_this_count_as_cheating_almostcheating
Yes it’s cheating. You know that it will hurt your bf when he finds out
Likely your bf will feel emasculated by this unless he has a cuckold fetish.
Don’t be surprised if he dumps you.
I would say leave the guy youre with now because you’re obviously not satisfied with him which is ok. You still have exploring to do that you should do. Everybody has different tastes.
love all the sugar coating you try to do throughout the story as if you yourself know it’s cheating but are trying to convince yourself otherwise
Cheating is if one side feels they did not consent. Sounds like BF did not 😕
Wifey and I have very different views on what defines cheating. I would love to watch her do what you did. Unfortunately I would feel betrayed if I didn’t consent beforehand or was mislead about it. Other couples enjoy hearing these postcoital stories of their loved one taking initiative on their own pleasure outside their relationship. Then again, some people assume it’s cheating just talking to others.
It’s probably cheating if you’re feeling guilty about something and avoiding telling him. Only you can decide if it’s worth telling him. That said, wow! That sounds incredibly hot.
Unlike the other replies, I do not feel like it’s cheating. To my mind, cheating is only if you carry it to the physical, in bed with each other’s naked body, stage.
If you have to ask if it’s cheating… It’s cheating
The way I have always gauged if my actions would be appropriate or not, comes down to this one simple rule.
“Would I do this in front of my partner?”
If you would not behave that way with your partner present. Then you shouldn’t do it without them.
Youre hiding it. That shows you youre cheating, only you and your bf can define what is and isntn cheating for your relationship and bc of your sense if guilt, im sure you know your answer