So this is an old story (10 years ago now since we started dating). I dont want to spoil anything so I’m not going to comment on where things are now.
We started dated at 17, In the beginning sex was good although it seemed to really die down after a few weeks. No more blowjobs and sex became a once a week occurrence. Which was frustrating because she is beautiful and honestly the most attractive girl I ever been with. She’s half filipino and half Spanish, long black hair and a nice bubbly round ass. Like an above average ass, not huge but nice, big and round. She always wore leggings or yoga pants, like she enjoyed showing off her ass.
While we were dating in the first year, she told me about a guy she had a FWB thing with, basically a guy who was in her class who was very good looking. She talked about how she gave him blowjobs on a few different occasions, never had sex. In a way this bothered me more the fact they didn’t have sex and instead she was giving him blowjobs. It was so dirty.
I found out a few months into our relationship she was still hanging out with him. This lead to a fight and she stopped seeing him for me but was promising she never cheated on me with him.
Even of she didn’t cheat on me, I found it humiliating she was hanging out with a guy who she gave a blowjob to n drank his load. Just knowing that there’s sexual tension and thoughts was too much for me. At the time I was very jealous and angry.
Over the next year I was haunted by her past with him, from what I knew and by what I didn’t know. All I ever saw of him was on his Facebook and this guy had pics with tons of girls. I was so bothered by the fact she gave him a blowjob when for me it was so rare, she also never gave me head until we were dating for a few months and it was so “planned” that it was never spontaneous. First I had to beg for a blowjob then she would usually say no but once In a while would tell me to take a shower first, then after that I’d come out and she would stay on her phone for an hour, then finally she would come and after taking off my pants she would sit there and start talking taking so long that the urge would keep leaving. By the time she did it I was overly prepared and it was just not exciting at all.
She had very nice big full lips, every time I saw them i got a knot in my stomach knowing those lips were around this guys cock.
As two years went by, we moved in together and got married. Around this same time, I started becoming aroused by her past with Mike.
She would always wear leggings or yoga pants, only wearing a thong underneath. This would drive me nuts because we only had sex once a week and she would barely let me touch her ass, never mind anything like anal. Sometimes when she bent over you could see her ass and thong through her thin leggings. This was frustrating because we only had sex once a week and always in the dark, me on top. Not even doggystyle. She even completely stopped giving blowjobs. Infact she wouldn’t even make out with me only kisses were light pecks.
Now I brought up the idea of cuckolding and she became very shocked, even though I only asked for details about her and Mike. She was disgusted by the fact it would turn me on. I kind of had to back track about it because she was all “do you love me if you think about me with other men, I want to ensure I am loved and desired” there wasn’t any way to reason it, she just wasn’t into it.
So as this idea was shut down, I began to develop a strong desire for her to cheat on me or to find out information about her doing so. I started doing things like going through her phone when she was in the shower, although she’d usually hide it somewhere sometimes I’d see where it was. I also went through her phone as she slept but this was a very touchy operation as she was a light sleeper.
It was difficult but I went through her texts and her Facebook messages. But I never had enough time to read much. I saw messages between her and Mike in the last few months with her saying “I miss you” and they made plans to “chill”. As I was reading these messages, I got an adrenaline rush and a hard on. In my mind I wanted her to see him again and for her to suck him off like old times.
But I couldn’t really find anything concrete and she never went through with meeting Mike. But i saw she did meet with one other guy about 5 months before this, when we still lived separately and were engaged but not yet married.
I found out she went out to dinner with a guy, I read the text of planning to meet for dinner and I read her saying “I’m inside waiting” him texting “I’m here”. she text him three hours later saying “thanks for the goodnight ” these messages got me hard and excited. I mean they met at a restaurant, then she texted him three hours later with the “thanks for the goodnight. For reasons unknown to me they ceased contact a few weeks later. To this day I don’t know if they had sex or what happened.
But I was curious about her past with Mike so I was trying to read her old Facebook messages.
This came to an end when I was caught going through her phone as she slept, she woke up and saw what I was doing and was furious. She became much more careful after this and put it under her pillow as she slept.
As time went on, I decided to get smarter and I installed a key logger on her laptop (which always had her social media signed out of but still went on) this way I could get a password and read all her messages on messenger without having to worry about going and sneaking through her phone. But I would only get her messages on messenger, not her texts. So I kept in mind this isn’t everything.
Seems like every other time a guy messaged her, she would either ignore it, sometimes was flirtatious and responsive but only to an extent. She would sometimes make plans but would not follow through with them and would eventually stop replying even after making plans. Seemed like if things did occur in the past she was not doing it anymore.
I continued observation for months, hoping she would cheat on me but she never did even though guys messaged her. I decided that I would stop initiating sex with her as often as I did. I went from having sex once a week to just once every second week. Then after a month I took things further and decided I’d only do it when she initiated. Which never happened, the fact i wasn’t initiating it turned her off. Basically slowly i stopped having sex but I still maintained being a good SO in all other ways. Infact I upped my game outside of the bed, buying her more romantic gifts, buying her cards, telling her I loved her, hugs and cuddles while watching movies. This was to let her know that I loved her and let her feel valued, while simultaneously depriving her of her sexual needs or more so her need to be desired.
I honestly didn’t think it would be effective because our sex life before this was very lame. Only having sex once a week and being in our 20s I felt her sex drive was low at least with me. Also sex was always in the dark, in bed, me on top and she would just lay there. But this still satisfied her need to be desired and I think she enjoyed the fact that even though she didn’t give it more than once a week, it was the fact I always wanted sex, she got her needs to be desired. Until I began this experiment.
I continued observations of her messages for months, nothing new happened but it was clear her resistance to other men was diminishing, she would chat longer and more flirtatious. But still wouldn’t go through with meeting anyone. That is until one guy she knew from her previous job messaged her.
They moved to texting which at that point I lost any information on what was going on. I tried getting to her phone, but was unsuccessful.
But about two weeks later she mentioned she would be hanging out with her classmate after school on Friday to go to a game as part of a project for their studies. I knew the story was probably untrue and the reality is it was probably him, because she never changed her usual routines. But I acted oblivious and said sure, no problem.
When Friday came around, I came home and to my surprise she was at home, she was in the bathroom doing her makeup. I saw her come out and she was looking just as she would be going on a date. She always wore makeup when she went out but she had a lot of it on, with eye shadow and was wearing short tight shirt exposing her belly button and lower back. She was wearing her sexy grey leggings, unsure of what thong was underneath. I asked “wow who on earth are you meeting” she smiled and came up to hug and kiss me. She then went on to talk about her classmate.
She left, I gave her a hug knowing there’s a chance she’s getting fucked. When she was gone I was obsessively going through her messages i had already read. I sat at home so excited but so frustrated as I really had no idea what was going on, only knowing she left looking sexy as fuck.
I waited and waited two hours, I text “so when will you be home” she said “ill let you know soon” then she replied telling me what was in the fridge and what I could cook for dinner “if I was hungry”. This got me more excited because didn’t sound like she was coming back soon. Then she text “hey so do you mind if I just stay at her place tonight? Cause it’ll be another hour and she lives right on campus so I can just come back in the morning”
I replied “sure, why not”
The next day she came home, being so normal and casual. Other than the fact she kissed me as she walked in. She was also complaining of being a bit sore cause she helped her friend move a dresser and lifted it weird. In the back of my mind It actually decreased my suspicions because if she WAS sore from sex, she wouldn’t be so blunt like that to rub it in my face, there was just no way…
A few days went by and I had no information, there was no new messages and she wasn’t making any new plans. I than began to realize she may not have gone to meet that guy, maybe she legit went with her classmate. I mean nothing really seemed different about her other than she was a bit more nice. Which would make sense she finally got out and made a friend.
Another week went by and nothing new. I saw she had a conversation on messenger with another girl, so I wasn’t really interested in reading it, infact I didn’t read it for a few days.
But she had plans for Friday again, more of the same with her new friend Jessica. She was leaving looking just as sexy as last time. So damn sexy that I just couldn’t shake the thought she may be seeing him.
I read the conversation she had with her friend, I always scrolled all the way up to read it in order. I read the conversation and very early I saw a message that changed everything “There’s a guy i am seeing he is soo hot” her friend “lol nice” then she said “serious, I could hardly walk last weekend cause we did it three times that night and again the morning after”
My heart was racing and my hands started shaking. I read further but only found out that he smoked a lot of weed but said it in a positive light “this guy is a huge stoner lol” This was something that she allowed me to do but would NEVER have sex with me high. This guy is obviously getting high before fucking my wife. This was too much information all at once, and she was out with him as I read this as she left me drooling by how sexy she was looking. I texted her “so how’s it going?” Around 9PM, She always replied in about a minute but didn’t reply. After 10 minutes I couldn’t help it and I Jerked off right there, knowing my wife was probably getting dicked down by him at the same time.
After that when my wife came back the next day I continued on as if I knew nothing. It became routine that she would go to his place Friday evening while telling me she is going to Jessica’s. She began coming back on Saturday morning to now coming back around Saturday 3 PM. After a couple months I knew what was happening but didn’t get any new information despite checking her messages every night just hoping to get something. That is until I see a conversation between her and the actual guy she is seeing. I was so excited that I decided to wait until Friday night to read them. When Friday came along and she left looking sexy as fuck with me acting like an oblivious dumb ass “good luck on your homework” I decided to smoke a bunch if weed and read their conversation.
The first message was a shock with him saying “hey babe” it was like what, this guy is calling my wife babe wow. She replied “hey you” I just read their casual conversation get dirty when he said “you want some dick?” She replied “um no” which made me think she wasn’t into dirty talking. She said “why?” He said “cause you love it” she said “I do” he replied a wink emoji and she said “I love to suck on it” he replied “I love it when you suck that babe and I know you like it i love to see you swallow babe” she replied “I love swallowing your cum”
reading this was just such a mindfuck. She hasn’t given me blowjobs in the longest time NEVER swallowed, yet she is sucking his cock and sounds like a lot, swallowing his loads. But it really made the blood in my dick swirl. I had my first ever orgasm that was triggered not by touch. I honestly didn’t even touch it, those messages just did it for me. I even tried to hold back but as I read “I love swallowing your cum” I had that feeling in my dick that wouldn’t go and triggered the orgasm.
Afterwards I sat there, high AF with jizz in my pants. The urge and arousal of it was gone and I was just sitting there knowing my wife is with another man while I’m sitting at home jerking off. I had a bit of disappointment and shame in myself. But this faded in as little as 20 mins and I was again aroused by it. She replied to my text and I texted her back saying “I love you so much, goodnight” she replied “goodnight, love you too”
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ogh101/fantasy_of_my_wife_cheating_turned_into_reality