As part of a story I’m writing, I need to describe the experience of a woman having multiple orgasms from her perspective. As a male, this is obviously something I have not experienced in first person, but I want to get this right. You read some things, but I’d prefer a personal testimonial to really ensure accuracy. None of the women that I am in a position to comfortably ask have reliably been able to have multiple orgasms. So now I turn to you, Internet.
After the first orgasm, how are the sensations different as you continue to be stimulated? Does your sensitivity change dramatically, and if it does, how do you address that? Do you prefer to switch to a different form of stimulation or different technique (ie toys vs fingers, penetration vs rubbing, clitoral vs g-spot, etc) for subsequent orgasms? Are the second and beyond orgasms experientially different from the first one? How does the rest of your whole body feel throughout the experience? Is it something you wouldn’t mind doing as part of every sexual encounter, if your partner could always get you there, or is it intense enough that you prefer it as a once in a while thing? Is there anything else unique about it that I haven’t even thought of but is very distinctive to the experience?
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/61mt2h/looking_for_a_womans_perspective_to_help_writing
I absolutely like to switch to a different type of stimulation after the first, even if temporarily to warm back up.
Subsequent orgasms feel much more full body. Less ‘sharp’ if that makes sense?
It can get too intense for me to keep going after 2 so certainly not an everyday thing for me at least!