Neglected, Unhappy 30 yr old housewife needs moderate sexual flirting.

I am a 30 year old woman. I am married figuring out divorce. I am sexually frustrated. And lonely. I need attention. I’m argumentative, mostly submissive in sexual situations, I like to fantasize that I am being: thrown up against a wall, bent over, ass slapped, choked. And wouldn’t mind having a dm buddy to play with me at night, to release my tension. No pics though. Imagination only.