So to be clear, I can make myself orgasm, but for a long time it felt impossible to cum with a partner. During one summer I was sleeping around, enjoying different partners, and I was hooking up with someone from Bumble. Right off the bat I noticed his dick was pretty girthy, definitely thicker than anything I had ever taken before. So we started off with oral and it was so fun to give him a sloppy blow job because he stretched my mouth a ton. Feeling my lips get tired so quickly was pretty hot, it made me want to try and make him cum with my mouth.
By that point he was moaning so much, he was definitely the most vocal partner I had. He kept calling me a ‘good girl’ and told me how sexy I looked with my hands around his shaft. Soon we switched to a position where I could ride him and this is where I had my first orgasm with a partner. Even though he had made me wet he kept using his spit to rub on his dick which was so sexy. He would even ask me to spit too!
But anyway, I was riding him while he was balls deep inside me, which made it so my clit was also rubbing on his pelvis. This was the perfect combination, except being a top can get exhausting pretty quick. But this man wouldn’t let me stop riding him, he kept saying things like ‘you’re doing so good’, ‘don’t stop’, ‘you want to make me cum right’, and my personal favorite was when he grabbed my hips and trusted into me while saying ‘god you so fucking good’. I think it was because he wouldn’t make me stop that I had my orgasm because soon I was shaking on top of him while whimpering that I was cumming.
Now you might be asking, what makes him a douchebag, and I know that being a douchebag is subjective so may be you don’t agree with the things I’m about to list but that’s ok. First, he was pretty aggressive during sex without checking if that’s ok or if I liked that. Thankfully I did, but at one point we were waiting for his Uber in the kitchen and he roughly fingered me with no warning. He was so rough during the whole time that I was bleeding by the end, not rough enough to make the sex super painful but enough for blood. The other thing that made me drop him was the continuous unsolicited dick pics. I definitely asked for one right before he came over but after that he sent one about every hour. Which was wild because I would get them at work and wake up to them and eventually I had to block them because he wouldn’t stop. The final straw came two weeks later when I found out he gave me an STD :P it was easily cleared up though, thank God.
All in all, glad I had my first orgasm, the STD was easy to get rid off, but I wouldn’t fuck that guy again. I need someone else who can give me orgasms ONLY!
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/hzkpa1/a_douchebag_gave_mef19_my_first_orgasm
Beautiful! I think you have to train and educate guys yet some extend of not checking in is appreciated by many women, as they like the dominance and this “i take what I want behaviour, specially in bed, rather than nice guys! :)
You sound equally douchey to be fair.
Real men can be rough and still be respectful of a woman.