[M37] I’m obsessed with licking my wife’s ass…

Context: I’m a 37 y/o 5″11 caucasian man, happily married to a petite 4″10 asian woman. We have what most people would probably consider to be a very “vanilla” sex life. For the past 4 years, I’ve been keeping a personal diary of pretty much every sexual interaction we’ve had together. I’m not really sure why I started doing it. I guess if I tried to analyse it, it’s because unlike photos and videos, a diary allows me to accurately reminisce over the exact feelings, sensations and thoughts that were occuring at the time. It makes the memories so much more vivid.

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With that out of the way, let’s rewind back to March 2022. We weren’t having a great night. We had one of those typical marriage arguments that start over nothing, and escalate much further than it should have. After a few hours of angry words and frustration, I decided it would be better if we just took a breather. I locked myself in the spare room and decided to sleep on the couch, leaving the bedroom to her.

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As it turns out, the lock on the door is largely redundant – it can be unlocked from the outside simply by inserting a toothpick into the mechanism. I guess it’s a safety thing, I dunno. Anyway. I woke up in a daze at around 3:00 AM. I wasn’t particularly coherent, having been snapped right out a dream and not understanding where I was or what was going on. As I tried to get my bearings, my hearing kicked in. I heard the sounds of desperate slurping and gentle gagging? I opened my eyes, but it was pitch black in the room. Then the rest of my senses kicked in: I finally realised I was rock hard, and my wife’s lips were wrapped around my shaft. I felt her tongue stroking the head of my cock as she bobbed up and down, before finally remembering where I was and why I was here.

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I was emotionally torn. I remember thinking to myself, “Hey, I’m annoyed at her! She can’t buy forgiveness with pleasure!” But at the same time, she very rarely sucks my cock – ESPECIALLY with this much charisma. For a brief moment, my pride won over my desire, and I gave her the most half-assed, lazy and gentle shove away from the couch. A reminder that I was still pissed off about whatever stupid petty thing she said earlier. But she didn’t let it deter her. She immediately lunged back toward me, gripped my cock in her hand and throated the entire thing. As I felt her gorgeous lips come into contact with my balls, I knew I’d lost the pointless battle.

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I reached down below the couch with one hand and went blindly searching in the dark for her perfect, round tits. My fingers traveled from her neck, to her collarbone, to her chest, to… lace? Damn it. She was serious. She was wearing my favourite lingerie. I couldn’t even remember the last time she wore that! I moaned in appreciation as I slipped my hand beneath her bra and started caressing her perfect tit.

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She continued passionately sucking my cock for a few more minutes until I realised this wasn’t just an “ordinary” blow job. Usually it’s just something she does out of obligation, or just to get me hard. But this was different. I was already rock solid. She wanted cum. The sheer realisation of this – combined with the sound of her moaning and gagging – was more than enough to push me over the edge. I felt my balls swell and I clenched as hard as I could. As much as I would have loved to fill her mouth with sperm, there was absolutely no way I was gonna let her make me cum first. I grabbed her by the chin and gently guided her head up and over my throbbing cock.

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It was like she read my mind. Without saying a word, she stood up, removed the bottom half of her lingerie, and reverse-straddled me on the couch. I reached up with my hands, found her hips, and forcibly pulled her back towards my face. Before she had even gotten into position, my lips were already caressing her dripping wet pussy. And my god was she wet! I’d never felt her like this before. She tasted so good as I ran my tongue along the full length of her pussy, lapping up all of her juices. She was moaning like crazy as my tongue dipped inside her, getting even more of her deliciousness.

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(Disclaimer: I absolutely fucking love licking pussy. It’s my favourite thing to do. It gets me off like nothing else. If I had to choose between licking pussy and fucking pussy – I’d take licking every day of the week. It makes me so hard to see a girl quivering and convulsing from my tongue.)

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My tongue finally came to rest on her clit, and I teased her with it gently for a while, with short, quick strokes. She responded by shoving my cock in her mouth again, massaging it with her tongue. I copied the speed and rythym of her tongue with my own, and she started releasing a deep, muffled groan as she realised what I was doing. She started lapping at my cock faster and harder, worldlessly instructing me on exactly what she wanted in return. I responded with the same intensity, and within 2 minutes she was a moaning, spasming mess of intense pleasure. Somewhere in the middle of her wild orgasm, she released my cock from her lips and collapsed in a heap on top of me. I decided to continue gently caressing her pussy with my lips and tongue while she recovered, and then that’s when she did something completely unexpected.

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She regained her posture. She gripped my cock and stuffed it in her mouth AGAIN. And she lowered her body – just slightly. Just a fraction of an inch. It was almost unnoticable. But that slight wiggle caused my tongue to shift out of reach from her clit. At first I thought, “she’s probably too sensitive since she just came”. So I kept stroking her pussy with my tongue as she desperately tried to make me cum with her mouth. But then – another adjustment. She moved again. I continued licking with a sudden spark of excitement. My tongue was right at the bottom of her pussy now. Less than an inch away from her ass hole. Was this going where I think it was? I had been dreaming about this for years.

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(Another disclaimer: I’ve never really been into asses. Ever. I’m definitely a boobs guy. I fucking LOVE boobs. I’ve only experienced anal once with an ex like 15 years ago, and it didn’t really do much for me. It was a silent, really akward situation where she worldlessly just shoved it in there, and after I came inside her ass, we just went to sleep and never really talked about it ever again. The (potential) hygiene of it all just kinda deters me, and on top of that, my wife’s petite frame means she has the most unimaginably tight pussy, so I don’t exactly feel a burning desire to put my cock anywhere else. But there’s something really captivating about my wife’s ass. I’ve been fantasising about doing all sorts of stuff to it for years. She’s one of those blessed girls with absolutely zero body hair and flawless skin, which just makes it even more enticing. I still don’t want to fuck her ass, but there are heaps of other things I’d love to do with it.)

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And then it happened. She gave me that final inch. My tongue naturally followed the curve of her skin and with no input from me, my tongue was now resting gently against her ass hole. I only hesitated for half of a heartbeat. I fully expected her to abruptly jolt up and correct her position. That’s what she usually does if my cock accidentally gets too close. But she stayed. Her mouth continued on it’s crusade for semen. And I got to work. I gripped her hips with both hands and held her in place. I didn’t want her to suddenly change her mind and lift away. I took my first long, slow lick across the full surface of her ass hole. I don’t even know if she made a sound because I was moaning uncontrollably at the sheer joy of it. My tongue gently worked it’s way around the ridges of her skin, exploring new and uncharted territory. My mind was racing, my heart was pounding, my balls were throbbing. My excitement was immeasurable. I was having SO. MUCH. FUN. I had no idea what I was doing but I was loving it. I pulled her hips back against my face while simultaneously spreading her ass apart, allowing my tongue to just slightly penetrate her. I started licking every molecule of her ass ravenously as delirium took over. I honestly felt drunk at that point. I convinced myself in that moment that none of it was actually happening – that I was actually still asleep and this was just a dream.

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I don’t know how long that moment lasted. Could have been a minute. Could have been an hour. Truthfully it was probably just 2 or 3 minutes. But it was such a thrill. At some point she snapped me out of my ass adventure, by speaking the first words since I woke up. “Come to the bed and fuck me.” She climbed off me, grabbed me by the cock and practically dragged me to our bed. As soon as we walked through the door, she was on the bed on all fours, presenting the wettest pussy on Earth to me. I climbed up on the bed behind her, preparing to take out whatever residual frustration I had on her. I looked down at her glistening ass hole in the light and my heart skipped a beat as I thought about where it was just a few minutes ago. I kneeled down and gave it one more long, loving lick before giving her what she wanted.

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For the first time in our entire relationship, I didn’t need to take it slow and work my way inside her. She was so overwhelmingly wet that I managed to shove all 7 inches inside her in a single thrust. And that single thrust was the only warning I gave her before grabbing her by the hips and absolutely pounding her petite little pussy. I fucked her relentlessly for what was probably less than 10 minutes before I was engulfed in the most intense, continuous orgasm of my life. I was literally roaring at the top of my lungs from the sheer, explosive pleasure. This wasn’t a typical orgasm. Usually when I cum, it happens in waves of pleasure, peaking and dropping with each burst of ejaculate. This wasn’t like that. This was one long, continuous stream of semen, with a peak that just kept building higher and higher. After the first 5 or so seconds, I could no longer control my body. She felt my body go limp as I surrendered to the pleasure, so she started moving her entire body back and forth along my shaft to compensate. I could barely keep my eyes open during it all, but I did manage to get a sneak peek down at her pussy and catch a glimpse of all the cum pouring out of her with each reverse thrust. After what felt like 30 seconds, I felt a “blockage” preventing any more ejaculate from escaping my cock. The sensation was similar to when you put your finger over the tip right before you orgasm. It was trying to get out, but there was nowhere to go. She was completely full. I leaned back and looked down as the head of my cock emerged from her freshly creamed hole. The moment I pulled out, one last defiant burst of jizz plopped out lazily onto the sheets.

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Before I could even reach for a tissue to clean up the mess, she had already rolled onto her back and she was rubbing her clit with so much raw intensity. She looked up at me with an expression of hunger I’d never seen on her before, punishing her clit as a steady torrent of hot, white sperm flowed from beneath. She came wildly in front of me as I just sat there, dumbfounded and back to trying to figure out if this was a dream again. My brain was completely switched off as I stared vacantly at the beautiful, cum filled mess of a woman in front of me.

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In the 10 minutes before we fell asleep together, I couldn’t help but reflect on the whole situation. I just had a huge fantasy fulfilled, and it triggered a meteoric reaction in me. I wasn’t sure what to expect when shoving my tongue in her ass. I thought I might not like it. I thought she might panic. I thought we both might regret it. But she seemed to support it. I don’t know if she enjoyed it or not. But she initiated it, and she didn’t pull away. I wanted to experience it over and over again. I wanted to feel her sucking my cock with that intense hunger again. I wanted to spend more time caressing her ass with my tongue. I wanted to experience that insane type of orgasm again.

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The following day, I asked her how she felt about having her ass french kissed. She responded with a fair amount of apprehension. In the following weeks and months, I tried to do it again a few times, but the best I got was a single lick before she politely redirected me with suggestions like, “No, I want your cock”

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So in summary: Last year I made out with my wife’s ass for the first time. I’ve been daydreaming about it ever since, but she really doesn’t seem to be into it. I’m fairly sure it will never happen again, but at least it makes me glad that I captured it in my diary so I can relive it vividly in my memories over and over.

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Are there any girls here who are into that sort of stuff? If so, how did you approach it? Were you apprehensive at first? Are you still apprehensive? Feel free to DM me, I’m keen to know other peoples’ experiences on the subject and if/how you overcame it.

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And like I said at the start – I know our sex life is fairly vanilla. I know this post is super tame / lame compared to most of the stuff around here. But please don’t judge. <3

EDIT: I’ve received multiple messages asking if this is factual or fiction. I thought it would have been obvious but yes, it’s factual.

Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/12rddfg/m37_im_obsessed_with_licking_my_wifes_ass