So like the title says, my boyfriend and I went to a swingers party about 6 months ago and it was a stupid idea. It was his idea and I wasn’t super into the idea when he suggested it but he kind of wore me down.
I don’t know where he found it, but we drove about 30 minutes to someone’s house who was hosting it. We were one of 10 couples there and we were the youngest people by probably 6-8 years. I think the oldest people there were in their early 50s maybe. Everyone was reasonably attractive but I noticed a lot of the men had their eyes all over me and a lot of the women had their eyes on my boyfriend. Like I said, everyone was reasonably attractive but I think we were the most attractive people there.
It was kind of awkward being there since the idea of what the point of being there was always weighing on my mind, and seeing the way some of the women were looking at my boyfriend was weird. We kind of just all mingled for a couple hours before the host started explaining what we were going to do.
I guess it was a rule that all the men drove, as they all put their keys into a box. The idea was that they would go around and pick someone keys out and got the partner of whoever’s they were, then they would take that woman back to their place for that night. I got picked 3rd and the guy was in his mid 40s and decently attractive. My boyfriend picked towards the end and also got a decently attractive woman who was like early 40s or maybe late 30s.
It was like surreal leaving with that guy but he got me loosened up because he was hilarious and just had a very cool personality. We had a glass of wine at his place and then had sex and it was incredible. I think we like fucked all night honestly and that’s where the problem is because now it feels like I’m lacking in the relationship. It was honestly the hottest sex I’ve ever had and now I want to do it again honestly. It’s weird looking at my boyfriend now because I know he was fucking some woman and I’m sure it has to be weird for him because he knew I was fucking someone else. We are still together but it’s weird now. Sorry if this is poorly written, I’ve never posted before and never written this out.
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/10sfrr7/i_went_to_a_swingers_meetup_with_my_boyfriend_and
Decide whether you two are comfortable sharing you experience. It might make your sex better. If not then each of you just commit to not talking about it and go to another one. This is the reason swinger parties happen. So people can have good experiences and bond their own relationship.