Well the title pretty much says it all. I was with a guy I thought I loved and I toned down a LOT of my sexual needs with him. I used to have a roster of girls and guys I would hook up with, sometimes having sex with 3+ people a day, regularly have threesomes, give sloppy BJs in the bathroom while lecture was going on, go to frat parties and see how many guys I could fuck in a night, fuck older married men, etc but when my boyfriend wanted to be exclusive I put that all aside. At first it was OK because he would be down to have sex all the time and try new things, plus he had a really muscular body and would throw me around. But he got boring near the end and didn’t care about fitness or anything except drinking and video games. We were LDR too and he would only “make love” when we met up, not even dirty talk or moan. I had all sorts of crazy sex toys he could use but he would never bother to even have skype or phone sex. Even when I BEGGED to be his personal cam girl. Finally he dumped me and I got so mad. Looking back, he probably already had someone else for him to not want me at all. All my prime slutty years wasted!
I mean every time we broke up, I’d immediately find a way to have as much sex as possible with girls (I missed pussy and he said no to 3somes) before he would beg to get back together, so I still had some fun times but I felt so resentful that I kept my legs closed to dick only for him to dump ME. Anyways, I was immediately on dating apps after my ex called it off for good. I was meeting guys but I didn’t feel anything exciting when we met up. I felt like everyone was so boring and “adult”, I missed the raw chemistry of dating in college.
I started to take bigger risks just to make things more exciting. I’d go on dates and not wear panties to see if the guys would even notice. I would wear bandeau tops without a bra and let my nipples peak through. If we were hiking or working out, I’d show off my gym booty as much as possible and bend over. If they weren’t handsy or taking charge, their loss. I usually give guys a few dates then ghost them if they aren’t dying to fuck me. I really get off to mind games like that. Here I am in a miniskirt, pussy wet and ready, looking cute and innocent in the outside. Going on normal dates, holding hands, cuddling on a picnic, going to the movies. If they bothered to take it further, they’d have the best surprise ever.
Only the last guy I went out with noticed I was going commando and of course I had sex with him. I was wearing a mini skirt that just covered my ass so I asked for help tying my shoes. I couldn’t bend over when there’s families around. He of course took a peek up my skirt and immediately asked me why I wasn’t wearing anything. I had a flimsy excuse and giggled it off but he started getting really handsy with me the rest of the date. He was grabbing my ass, keeping me close, and kept smiling at me when he thought I wasn’t looking. I knew it was driving him crazy that we had all these cutesy activities planned for the afternoon when we knew I was ready to be fucked.
As soon as we got to my place he was on me. He was eating me out with the skirt on and couldn’t get enough of my curves. He wasn’t as rough and vocal as I like, but I don’t expect people to know exactly how I want it the first time. We had sex until we ran out of condoms then decided to chance it with pull out method. My biggest kink lately is the risk of pulling out. I don’t want to be pregnant AT ALL but I do like the way sex feels without condoms and there’s a thrill/fervor when you know you have to pull out. He pounded me hard and fast and was obsessed with my tits🤤🤤🤤 And right during my ovulation week. It was pretty good for my first play since being single. Always room for improvement though 😜
Any other subtly slutty things I can try on my future dates? I love casual slutty acts the most because sometimes it’s the most thrilling. Like wearing a sexy body suit under a boring sweater and jeans at work. I look normal all day, most people would think “cute”. But when I go to my fuck buddies place, it all comes off and my dark side is revealed 😈
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/1087m8e/i_got_dumped_by_my_bf_of_5_years_and_ive_been
You can always get a lovense toy and give your fwb or stranger full controll while your on your date. Can also risk it and wear a (vibrating or rgb)butt plug when your going commando. I once met up with this chick who carried around a stack of index cards with a sexual acts on. Some more daring than others, but basically she handed me the stack and said pick one. Some of those were outrages, so you know i pick those evertime we meet up. She told me its the best way to encourage guys to play with her with out being to straight forward and scaring them. Turns out guys are less likly to act on sexual urges then woman.