I have a friend who, over the past couple of years, I’ve gotten closer and closer too. She’s 23 years old and often complains to me about her virginity. We’ve never flirted with each other and she seems to bring this issue up with everyone (she’s very eccentric) but everytime she brings up being eager to try out sex or asking for advice on how to better attract men, it makes me go absolutely crazy inside. I just want to be the first to fuck her so bad.
Sometimes it’s easy to convince myself she secretly is dropping hints that she wants it to be me, like she will out of the blue ask me if I find her sexy or if her outfit is appealing over text. I always tell her I don’t think she’d have any problems finding someone if she just put herself out there, but she’s really shy around most men.
I really value our friendship and genuinely hope for the best for her. But every night when I’m masturbating I really can’t help but imagine her getting railed by me. When i watch porn I catch myself clicking on videos with girls who remind me of her. I just need her so bad it’s crazy.
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/100e39z/untouched_desperate_beauty
She would likely be *thrilled* to be able to explore herself with someone who cares about and respects her.
Be nonchalant, and just offer.
I agree with the others. Offer, but don’t push or try to “convince” her. She has to actively want it or the whole thing falls apart. **Be a friend first and foremost**. Just keep in mind… *whatever she decides goes*.
Also, it was unclear if the queries via text were hypothetical or actual. If real, then just be honest. Keep it simple, too. Answer the question asked, not the one you hope she’s trying to hint at. (I say this as someone who has made that mistake.)
As long as you’re sincere and genuine in your desire to provide her a safe space to explore, you should have absolutely nothing to fear. Keep it about her and, with luck, things will work out to your mutual benefit.
Good luck to you both!