I am 27f and have been going through some kind of fucking sex craze I guess I knew nothing about ?????
(Yeah, advice on THAT would be nice. I feel like a 12 year old boy going through puberty whenever anyone reMOTEly attractive looks in my direction, turning me into the biggest flirt because the only interaction I get is the sweet attention of my sweet partner because I work from home.) Sorry. Off topic immediately.
Big oof.
BUT I am way hornier than my partner. My pussy is ready, like all. the. time. Unfortunately, my partner is not. He does not have a problem with me helping myself, I’m just sad he isn’t as horny as I am all the time.
We haven’t been this incompatible in a bit and sometimes my mind wanders when I play with myself because we aren’t fucking as much. (Our sex life is alive and well, just not as adventurous as it used to be—trying to work on that.)
One of the ways I really like to get myself riled up is by bringing my very imaginative mind to life with what goes through a man’s mind who (happens to think I’m attractive and—) looks at me in that way. I remember everything. I mean, details. Great for things like this. Horrible for an array of other reasons. 😅😈 But…. Is this wrong: I like to really remember eye contact and touching, (specifically me touching them, and what it feels like from their perspective… even if it’s platonic, it eventually sneaks back into my mind later (obviously if they’re attractive to me and I feel that they like my vibe/think I’m attractive lol)) EVEN WITH PEOPLE I KNOW.
That is the problem. People in my life are included in this array of characters that pop into my fantasies.
Is it wrong? Some are 23+ and most are older than myself. (27+) It’s very much fantasy driven and something I would never act on. It’s a kink where they teach me things, or just watch me because they can’t touch me. That kind of thing, idk, like I said ITS FUCKING WEIRD being with people I know. I hate it to some extent, but most of them are not people I’m SUPERRR close with, so it’s not awkward hahaha
TL;DR: I fantasize about people know irl, sexually. But I sexualize myself for them (or rather, my idea of them) and their attention to me in the fantasies gets me going, then subcociously the next time I around them I guiltily turn into a mysterious, bubbly flirt who’s hornier than ever. (Engaged to partner here. Would never act on ideas.) NOT ongoing, just pops in every now and again over months. Is this wrong or weird? Would you be upset if your partner was thinking like this?
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ud0os5/not_sure_if_post_allowed_asking_for_advice_is_it
That’s completely OK and Normal, you’ve got a blossoming sexuality and sexual imagination, and appetit..Appétit… all are good, normal and healthy… enjoy 😈😇
Perfectly normal enjoy your time. Try to get more from your partner
I don’t see anything wrong with that – just FYI, same here, check any medications for increased libido as a side effect! That’s part of it for me.
Other than that – enjoy yourself!
Completely normal to let your brain wander. Take up writing and posting your fantastic imagination here. Your Stories are so delicious and real they will appeal to many, many folks.
What you are doing is fine. However, I would advise caution as you go. I have done this as a method to manage an overactive libido and then when I’d have a spike, I had people who were hard core trying to convince me/significant other to let me follow through on the flirt. It caused some rough spots and miscommunication. Keep your SO in the loop. You may be surprised at what you find that works for both of you.
Enjoy finding new fun and fantasy!