Why are men always perceived to only like it rough?

There is absolutely a place for the hardcore, nasty sex. Anyone can enjoy it. But I hate that’s all society believes men want because I know men are only human, just like women, and sometimes being gently nurtured with compassion would drive them wild.

Sometimes it is nice to give into our kinks and naughty side. But sometimes you just need to be touched and loved. I want to do that for you because you deserve it.

You don’t have to do anything for me. I just want to lean you back after a long day of work and let you relax. You don’t have to worry about turning me on or getting hard for me. I don’t want a care in your mind. You could be soft the entire time and I would love it all the same. I only want you to feel good and take the world off your shoulders. Baby you deserve it. I know that slow and gentle isn’t always what you fantasize about, and I love that you have your inner world. But I want you to be taken care of. I want to show you how much you mean to me.

I’d gently put your soft dick in my mouth and roll it around slowly. I’m not concerned about a climax unless you want it. I just like watching the tension leave your body because you do a lot and it seems like no one notices. But I do.

I’d press my palms on the flesh around your dick with just enough pressure so you can feel me, but not too much. Let my thumbs gently stroke your balls as I roll you around in my mouth. I want to take it slow. I want you to feel every shift in my mouth. I want you to feel my saliva drip. I want you to relax, to not think about anything, to feel what I feel for you.

And if you wanted me to go faster, I would, but I have to admit, no matter how badly you wanted it, I would stroke you with my hand then continue gently pulling your dick into my mouth. I just need you to know how much I appreciate you. I want you to know I’m not just doing this to get it over with. I’m doing it because I love it. I’m doing it because I love watching you lean your head back in bliss. I want that moment to go on and on.

But if you were begging me to go faster, I’d pull my comfy tits out and place them around your shaft. Still not giving you the speed you want, but giving you the sensation I know you need. Just gently mushing them around your balls and your dick that are still wet from my mouth. And I would love this so much because it would give me the chance to watch you, to gauge how much you enjoy it. Because that turns me on the most. God, nothing turns me on more than seeing you in ecstasy.

And just when you think that’s it, that I’ll ask you to reciprocate, I’d put you back into my mouth. So goddamn soft. Let my tongue saturate your beautiful dick. God it feels good. And I want to climb on top of you and fuck you into oblivion, but this isn’t about me. It’s about you.

I’d feel you reaching closer. You don’t just want me to move faster, but you need it. I’d do anything for you. So I’d move my hand up and down with my mouth, twisting it gently while I pick up the speed. Feeling your head pop in and out of my mouth and loving the sound of it. Just going over and over and over and over again. As fast as you need me to.

Just going up and down until I feel you pulsate in my cheeks. I’d know you’re ready, but you’d let out, exasperated, “Baby, I’m gonna cum.” And that would excite me. I’d pick up the pace because I want to feel you. Watch you. You twitch beneath me.

Then you’d let out the sound I love the most, the sigh of intense pleasure, and you’d shoot into my mouth. As much as I’d try to swallow it, it would be so much and your cum would drip out of my lips still wrapped around your dick.

And I’d stroke you softly, so slow, just to let you relax into the heaven your body is feeling. Because that’s what I would love the most. To watch you feel at peace.

Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/u9sk9m/why_are_men_always_perceived_to_only_like_it_rough