I know this is not very unique. I find older men admiring my beautiful 30 something girlfriend very arousing. I had invited a older friend for dinner and he admired her curves, smile, hair, cleavage and wrote an email later about it. That night it was very arousing for me to enjoy sex. I shared it with her too.
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/svc46d/older_men_admiring_my_girlfriend
How about sharing that email with us?