I [F31] used to hate blowjobs until I met my current [M44] boyfriend.

My first sexual experience and dating partner was unfortunately… abusive. The way he demanded blowjobs and tried to control how I did it, and wanted it to look and sound like it did in the (rape)porn he enjoyed, just made me hate the whole activity. I thought blowjobs are only to gratify men, and I hated being used and saw nothing enjoyable in it.

My next dating partner was a sweet man… But stinky. And dirty. Especially down there. So the blowjizzles were off the table for different reasons. I had all but written them off as not my thing.

But guys. Current partner?

First off. He has a thing of showering before sex, which I have grown to absolutely adore and adopt as a good habit. And he cleans up proper and well – he tasted like himself and not sweat or gunk… And his dick is just amazing. It is so much fun giving blowjobs – I never knew!

He has a habit of starting sexual encounters really playful. He will make jokes, funny faces, funny noises. I actually really appreciate this – it’s not exactly sexy, but it makes sexy times fun and relaxing. It’s a great atmosphere to be in.

But what I really love and find a turn on? Yeah sure, he’ll be a clown and joke and make his faces and noises … But if I kiss him on the lips and slowly kiss my way down… From his neck, to his chest, to the hips… sometimes sort of miss the mark and go around his thighs just to be a tease..! And just enjoy myself as I kiss the tip and start to play with him, he’ll slowly stop making funny noises. The more I use my mouth, the less of a clown he is. At first he just quiets down for a bit… Before it turns into sighs and moans. It’s like it feels so good he can’t focus on being funny anymore – he just gets lost in the feeling. Which just excites me more. I can hear and feel he’s into it, how he might ever so slightly twitch or shuffle around. The quiet *”Oh God”* or slipping into his native Chinese for whatever he can’t help but say, is also really hot. There are some things I do with my tongue that always get a rise out of him, and I just love being able to pleasure him and having learned what he likes. It feels incredibly empowering, fun and good to make him feel good. Which is the exact opposite of what I learned blowjobs were to start with – I’ve never been this happy to be wrong.

The blowjobs usually end with him giving an impatient grunt that we really should move onto sex RIGHT NOW, lol. I have and would love to finish him off with my mouth, but the blowing usually makes him too hot and bothered, which is great because it makes me very hot and bothered as well!

Thanks for reading – I don’t really have a buddy IRL to talk sex comfortably at the moment so, you will do, Reddit.

Source: reddit.com/r/sexystories/comments/sn4dx1/i_f31_used_to_hate_blowjobs_until_i_met_my