In all of my serious relationships there is one thing that always seems to be the problem. Lack of sex after the “cupcake phase”. I always get complaints from my male partners after this phase like they feel I an no long attached or attracted to them because I am not as open or don’t want sex as much as I did before but that’s hasn’t been the case. I just don’t feel in the mood for that type of connection. And the more they ask the more irritated I get and then I really don’t want to have any type of sex. How do I fix this ? It never fails to be the main reason why my relationships fail. Is this normal?
Source: reddit.com/r/sexystories/comments/skj16z/is_something_wrong_with_me
It it not a problem with you. I know a few women like that and a few men as well. It does however sound like you like the thrill of new partner, and the security of a relationship. Try swinging, I mean, you get the thrill of new, he gets more sex, you both get reminded of what you love about each other’s bodies afterward and it makes your passion together better. Of course there are risks and all but it is a thought.
You’re sexually incompatible with them due to mismatched libidos, simple as that. They seem to also not respect your decision which is there problem and very rude but very common. I suggest finding the common denominator in the men you date and finding the pattern that they have in common causing this behavior and also to limit sex in the beginning to how often you will want it later in relationship so they fon’t feel decieved. This way if not enough sex for them it’ll be over faster and save you time.
Well it sounds like at the beginning you like a lot of sex the get a guy hooked? And then once hooked you trail off with less sex and they miss it? Sound right?
Joke “do you know why women have pussy hair?”
TO HIDE THE HOOK!
Sorry an old fisherman joke but seems relative!