So, our sex life is crazy. By crazy, I don’t mean we have threesomes and orgies every night of the week, or even every week, what I do mean is that we will have sex twice a day for five straight days and then nothing for a week, and then fuck like rabbits for a few days, and then, well, you get the picture. It’s called life. I am not complaining. I fucking love our sex life. I’ve been with between two and three dozen guys and my husband is the absolute best in all the ways — something that I have found quite rare in the married world.
Enough rambling. That’s a picture of our sex life, it’s great! And our sexual communication is even better, which is what led me to writing this article. I asked him some questions about sex, to find out what HE really wants, and what most (unselfish) guys want from a girl when doing the deed between the sheets; or on the sheets, or on the countertop, or wherever. I’ll proceed with a Q&A format, an interview if you will.
1) He Wants to Watch you Orgasm
Me: So, babe, what do you like most about sex? What do you want to get from it, almost every single time?
Hubby: I like watching you cum.
Me: *Blushes* Really? That’s what you like the most? Not finishing in my mouth, or on my breasts, not me giving you a blowjob or reverse cowgirl (which I suck at). Not a threesome?
Hubby: Nope. Watching you climax is the hottest thing ever.
Me: Why?
Hubby: Because you are fucking sexy. And just watching your body let go and release. It’s like nothing else matters to you at that moment. You are completely lost. Your body twitches, your nipples get hard, you twist and turn and the sounds that you make when you’re cumming is a complete turn on. It’s better than my own climax. It’s fucking hot!
I must say, I didn’t expect that. Maybe I got an unselfish one or hit the sexual lottery, but I love it! And he makes me cum oh-so-good.
2) Hearing that You are Enjoying It
When he said this, I totally got it. Because for me, when having sex, I love it when the guy (or girl) lets me know that (s)he’s into it. Whether its a moan, a groan, a touch, anything, I love knowing that he’s enjoying what I’m doing. And for fuck’s sake, tell me if you’re not!
Me: I like that too, but why? I asked what YOU want from sex, and all you’ve told me is things that I do.
Hubby: Because that’s what I like. And I think most guys who aren’t total dicks in the bed, no pun intended, wants to hear that their partner is enjoying it. The sounds you make when I’m going down on you, or squeezing your breasts, and especially the moans when you are riding on top of me, my god that gets me so close to cumming. It’s a major turn on. So yeah, hearing you is definitely in the top 3.
Me: Alrighty then. Noted. I can be as loud and vocal as you like!
Hubby: As long as it isn’t fake, and I can tell, go for it!
Me: Okay! So what’s your third thing? It has to be you finishing, right?
3) Tasting you
What?! A guy would rather taste me than cum himself?!
Me: Whyyyy. That’s can’t do anything for you? It’s just you going down on me.
Hubby: I don’t mean just tasting your pussy and licking between your thighs. I mean the flavor of your chapstick, the feel of your mounds of flesh and your nipple in my mouth, the taste of the skin on your back, your neck, you ass, and your tummy. The sensation of all of you on my tongue is a major turn on. It’s why I get so hard when going down on you. I love it, and I think most guys will say the same thing.
Well, I wasn’t sure if he was just being nice, or if this is really what guys want, so I took my quest to the internet and asked random guys what they like. I got a lot of “I want to feel you lips on my cock,” or “I would love to watch you with my girlfriend,” or “I wanna cum all over you.” Yeah, the usual from Internet fuckboys. But, I also have some online friends in the sex community that aren’t total creepos, and they said a lot of the same things my husband did. Sure, they want to cum, who doesn’t, but they all said the sights and sounds and taste of their partner really turn them on.
Conclusion: Let your man know that you are enjoying them, the rest will just come! Pun intended! If you liked this read, check out [How to Give a Mind-Blowing BlowJob](https://medium.com/sexual-compass/how-to-give-a-mind-blowing-blowjob-d5a9994624df), and then, well, have fun in bed all day! Feel free to message me, I may just write the next article tailored to your needs!
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/q9dfuv/3_things_your_man_wants_from_sex_spoiler_its_all
I’ve recently been sent a sexy vid and I can’t keep my eyes on the sexy stuff cos she’s smiling knowing how much I’m gonna enjoy the vid, and I keep looking at her smile instead, enjoying how happy it’s making her to turn me on.