How to Give a Mind-Blowing Blowjob! One he Will Never Forget!

90% of a good blowjob happens before it’s in your mouth. The rest is just background noise.

I posted this on r/sex and r/sexology but they suck and do not allow links. r/erotica does, so their loss is your gain!

“A penis cannot tell the difference between the back of your throat or the roof of your mouth.” I read that someplace. Unless the guy is standing over you, and you are leaning back with your head off the bed (or table) and he is fucking your mouth, then he has no idea if the tip of his penis is touching the back of your throat or the top of your mouth. And the only way he reason he can tell in this position is because he can look down and see it. Which is fucking hot, by the way, if you’re into that. Lesson: deepthroating is overhyped and guys really don’t care. Sure it feels good, but it’s not a necessity. Although, if you can do it, they love to watch!

We will come back to the “lie back” position, it’s a bit advanced and provides a power dynamic. Let’s get back on topic, how to give a great blowjob, and the positions that are best for both of you. Let me say that again.
The positions that are best for both of you.

Your man loves blowjobs. And, to be frank, there really isn’t a bad blowjob (unless you use your teeth). Now, there are definitely better and best blowjobs, but never bad. So rule number 1, get it out of your head that you suck at it. Because as long as you are sucking, you don’t suck at it. All those sucks are confusing, but you get the picture. Some girls, lots of girls actually, love giving head. Some of them want to feel submissive, some of them want to please their man, and some of them just have an oral fixation and love a cock in their mouth. Those girls aren’t reading this. You are. And you are reading it because you are hesitant, or you are insecure in your blowing skills. Spoiler: you don’t actually blow, that does nothing but make things dry and kill the mood. So what is rule number 1?

Get it out of you head that you are bad at blowjobs.

Sex is supposed to be fun for everyone, that includes you giving oral. Does your man go down on you? If he doesn’t, then give him the boot. Just kidding, well, not really, because I would, but communicate. If he doesn’t orally satisfy you and you want him to, that could be a problem. That brings us to rule 2: communication.

So you are past the point of being insecure. You are ready to drop to your knees and be a good little girl, or maybe you are ready to lie on your tummy in the bed between his knees and tease him with your tongue, whatever position you are in, you’ve decided that you are ready. And you are going to rock his world with your oral skills. Not so fast. Everyone is different. Everyone likes different things. So before you have an erect organ in your mouth, use that mouth to ask some questions. Do you like it licked? Do you like it wet? How wet? Do you like your balls licked? Sucked? Because these answers are going to be different. And guys, let your girl know if she’s doing something that doesn’t feel good. She can’t read your mind. My partner doesn’t like his balls sucked at all, he doesn’t mind me licking them, but he says it hurts for them to actually be in my mouth. How would I know if he didn’t tell me, that’s something that isn’t on my person, so I can’t know.

Communication is Paramount!

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Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/q8aw3m/how_to_give_a_mindblowing_blowjob_one_he_will