I was a very sexually reserved lady until I hit my early to mid 30s. I was a virgin until 18 and my husband was only my second sexual partner. Around 32 years old I started masturbating thinking about kinky friskier sex. I started fantasizing about gang bangs, rape fantasies etc. I ask my husband to talk to me about my fantasies. His stories were very erotic, he had me having sex with an entire baseball team, football team etc. I loved his stories, they would always end with an awesome orgasm.
Most men hit their sexual peak in their late teens to early 20s, while women reach their sexual prime in their mid-30s to mid-40s. In most relationships it’s the man that asks for an open relationship. We were different, I wanted the multiple partners. Even though my husband is awesome it was very hard for me to ask him, it ended up being very easy because my husband already knew because the fantasies we would discuss. I told him I desperately wanted frisky sex with other men and I wanted to experience “different sizes” so my husband let me go find both. BTW “size does matter”, girth is more important than length! LOL! I also had a couple of men that were the size of a forearm, these were kinky but way overrated. I am only 5ft 105lbs and 34DD so a lot of people thought I was much younger so I was fortunate to find younger frisky men. I was in great physical shape, so I could have sex for hours with many different men. I did allow my husband to see other woman but for the best part he was not interested, he was past his sexual peak.
It all started at Hedo in Jamaica. It was pajama night and I wore a very revealing lingerie outfit. I ended up dancing with a young man about 10 years younger than me. We were dirty dancing and kissing but I was so afraid to go further. My clit was swollen and I wanted to suck his winkie so bad, but I did not know how my husband would react. I went to the restroom and talked to my husband, he read my mind, he asked me if “I wanted me to suck the young man’s dick”, I enthusiastically answered yes, so he encouraged me to do it. It was still awkward but when I looked at my husband he would continued to encourage me, I also could tell he liked what I was doing. When I finally gave the young man a blow job, I almost had an orgasm. This all happened on the dance floor, if you been to Hedo you will understand. I asked my husband if we can go to the hot tub, which is more private, I was hoping to have intercourse with the young man. We all three went to the hot tub, we got naked and I continued playing with the young man. I was so ready to ride the young man’s winkie but I could not ask my husband. My husband intuition worked again, he asked me if I wanted him to go get a condom from our room, I told him yes with a HUGE smile. I was so excited, I would have exploded as soon as the young man’s winkie slide inside me. Unfortunately my husband got insecure and came back and told me, so we left the young man and went back to our room without him. This was our last night at Hedo so we did not have a chance to try again. We went back to Hedo the following year and we were much more mentally prepared. It all started on the dance floor again but this time we went to the nude side peer. I was prepared and already had a condom, I put it on the young man and climbed upon the young man’s winkie without asking my husband. It was total ecstasy just like my fantasies. I had an orgasm in about 45 seconds, this was the best orgasm of my life. I loved having sex with another man and my Husband loved it too. We repeated this nightly, always with a different man.
After a couple of years with similar escapades, we decided to do Hedo one last time. I decided it would be a trip to remember. I set a goal to have sex with 100 men, 10 men per night for 10 nights. I worked hard to prepare, I did P90X daily, I masturbated daily and I did Kegels approximately three hours per a day, all for 6 months before our trip. I always craved the attention of younger men, so we decided to go during spring break. Hedo has a stripper pole on the bar, after numerous years I became very good on the pole. I would end up being the main entertainment almost every night. I have a pierced clit hood, I would wear a blinking curved barbell, it was very erotic looking. The first night appeared to be a dud so I got slightly intoxicated. After I performed a very intense show on the stripper pole, I was resting and laying on my side on the bar, naked with my legs open. Almost everyone was fascinated with my clit piercing and the blinking jewelry so I naturally stayed in the same position. Fortunately for me a large group of “spring breakers” from Purdue University came into the “Octopussy Disco”. What a name considering one of the first things they saw was me leaving nothing to the imagination. They were really fascinated with what they saw. After some small talk, one asked me if he could take a picture, I let him take a close up, but not of my face only my piercing. He got so close up he said he “could smell my private area”. I laughed and said it wasn’t very private. A few others asked if they could also smell me, I was thrilled to let them. They got so close to me I could feel them breathing on me, my clit began to swell. One jokingly asked me if he could lick me, I did not answer him but I slide to the end of the bar and arched my back. He began licking me and continued for a while. It was feeling good but I was still a little numb for the wine and this being my first act of public affection given to me, I couldn’t orgasm. After 15-20 minutes, I asked the cutest one to come up on the bar so I could suck his winkie. They all laughed at the term “winkie”. I told them I was a lady and I thought it was more lady like to use the term “winkie”. I can only imagine what was going through their brain, lady, yeah right! After some awkward time figuring out a comfortable position I finally had a weak orgasm while sucking the winkie and being licked by the other young man. After we were done we went to the midnight buffet and had a snack, we talked for a couple of hours. I ended up telling them what my goal was, I did not mention the 100 men, I just said I wanted to have sex with a group of college men. I asked them if they were interested. We agreed on the following night, it was so funny, they were all like a dog in heat with a T-bone steak in their mouth. The only issue was that they wanted to split up and have sex with me on separate nights or at different times. Even though the first night ended with only oral sex, I was still hoping to achieve my goal of 10 per night so I told them we were leaving the following day, this was not true. The following night started in the disco, I was dancing and grinding on the Purdue boys, most got moderately hard. I did not want to lose the opportunity so I quickly invited them to the nude pool. They had a group of 17 but only 15 came to the nude pool. I had already planned on a location, coincidentally this area had 7 pool lounges. We got naked and got into the hot tub, I allowed then to touch me and kiss me, while they were touching me I was touching their winkie ranking them by size. I then had them sit on the edge of the hot tub, I arranged them smallest to biggest. I did not let them know what I was doing but they clearly knew what I was doing. I felt bad for the first one so I sucked him until he had an orgasm, he left as soon as he orgasmed, I assume he was embarrassed. I just slightly sucked and teased the others. I then numbered then 1-14, I told 1 and 2 to go to the first pool lounge and then instructed the others to do the same. I told the even numbers to stand behind the pool lounge and the odd numbers to lay on their back. When I paired them up, one said “no way”, he thought I was I was leading them to some man on man thing, I assured him I was not. Some of the “bigger” ones tried to move up, but after a little rearranging we were ready to go. I began sucking the winkie of the guy laying on lounge, as soon as he got hard, I put on a condom and climbed on top of him. After we got a rhythm going I invited the “even’ man to straddle over his friend so I could suck his winkie. I was careful to not let the “even” guy orgasm. After the odd guy had a orgasm I rode the even guy. This worked out well, some orgasmed very quick and others took a while. I had 3 orgasms, this was the only time in my life I was multi-orgasmic. I ended riding all 14 winkies and having sex for almost 5 hours with minimal stoppage, it only felt like an hour. Even though I exercised intensely for 6 months, I was very sore the next day, I could barely move. My vagina was so tender, I could not have anything inside me the following night. I recovered quickly by the fourth night I was back to my kinky ways but this time I would go to the restroom and shoot a load of KY lubricant inside me before I stared any intercourse, I ended giving blow jobs only to 6 young men and had sex with 31 other men. I didn’t come close to my goal of 100 men but I had a smile for a month after our trip.
Even though our annual trip to Hedo was fun our last trip sent me into sexual overdrive. I was craving for more than once a year sexcapades, I even wanted daily sex with more than one man so I decided to try other methods.
We tried going to bars and looking for one night stands but we only had moderate success, most men thought it was too good to be true or they were uncomfortable with my husband being around. I assured them my husband would only watch but it seldom helped. I also tried going out by myself, this was more successful but very time consuming. I would spend hours talking to them, and then eventually we would get to the point. You would be surprised how many man were scared and ran away, some thought I was a “lady of the night” but I wasn’t, not yet. I had to go to locations that the men had a hotel room. I learned conventions, casinos etc. were my best bet.
I tried stripping to meet more man but it was also very time consuming. To experience more sex I ended becoming a high end, high volume escort, I was so nervous the first time but that was all it took, I could not get enough. I would get so excited and filled with anticipation with each appointment. Only I felt more like they were first dates and I considered each one as a new friend, even if only for a short time.
I would invite them in and the make out session would begin. I always felt like a teenager again, I would get tingly and I could feel my clit start to swell. Then the undressing would begin, this was a lot of fun especially with the friskier ones, clothes being pulled off and tossed to the side, the feel of their hands all over my body, all over my breasts and the initial finger inside me! Wow! The way it would glide in was like heaven and I would want to melt. As we lay down on the bed and they start to lick me, another feeling of pure bliss, some were better than others, but they all felt good. Sometimes I just couldn’t wait to start sucking on them. I loved the feel of their winkie in my hands and mouth, so warm and firm and delish. No matter how many clients I had, the anticipation to see their package was always unbelievably exciting.
I would then proceed to climb on top and start riding them, the initial glide of their winkie into me was exhilarating and like ecstasy. I loved it when they would stay in the position long enough for me to orgasm. The feeling of their winkie sliding in and out at my pace was like being in heaven. The feeling of my clit rubbing against their bodies was so stimulating and invigorating that sometimes I felt like I would explode. I also liked the missionary position which was usually next, the feel of their warm bodies pressed against mine, the feeling of surrender to them, the hot sweaty sex was just fantastic. Then we would start switching positions, which was fun sometimes. I have to admit for a woman that was a virgin until 18 and my husband was only my second sexual partner I got quite the education. LOL! Sex with many strangers was much more mind-blowing than my previous two encounters, sorry hubby.
I kept wanting more, I couldn’t get enough, I had an insatiable appetite. I am not a nymphomaniac; I just enjoyed the company, intimacy, attention and the cuddle and snuggle of many men, it felt wonderful to be in their arms. One of my tours I was intimate with over 25 men in four days, I smiled for a week after that trip.
I was an escort for 7 years and greatly enjoyed myself. I continue to do one night stands, multiple men, MMF and FFM threesomes, I loved them all. My only regret, I wish I would have started much sooner (younger). I also wish I could have had all of the man “juices” inside of me instead of inside the condom but it was not worth the safety risk.
I never did illegal drugs, I got into sex work for fun, not for the money. I was a house wife, my husband has a well paying job and is very supportive of my endeavors. Even though I had numerous sexual partners, my husband it the only real man in my life, I love him more than words can say!
I know I will be slut shamed, I was extremely safe, I never caught a STD or STI. I am a classy lady, friends and family would be shocked if they knew of my lifestyle. Non-Monogamous relationships are common, open communication is extremely important. I believe I was put on earth to be a promiscuous lady. I had well over 100 orgasms with my clients and freebies! I slept with over 1000 men and wish it was over 10,000. I can’t wait for Covid to pass, I am ready for more intimacy with different men!
I am sorry this is so long, I could say so much more, like the time I had gang bang with 5 men at a Disney hotel hot tub, maybe some other time. I wrote this to help people that are considering our life style. Please consider, my Husband loves me more than ever and I love him more and more every single time a winkie goes in and out of me. That’s whole lot of LOVE!!
Thanks!!
TO ALL THE NAYSAYERS!
I respect your position, but for people to fully understand, they must be fortunate enough to have a great relationship with their spouse. I give my Husband everything he ever wants and he gives me everything I want. My heart is always with my Husband, he is happy because I am happy!!
Some of you are young and insecure so you may not understand. After many years of marriage sex becomes routine. You will always need something to spice it up and this is what worked for us. We have greater sex today than before! I really enjoy sex with my husband but variety is the spice of life.
Open your mind to new experiences, you may be surprised.
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/nczado/my_transition_from_a_lady_to_hypersexual_freak