Don’t know what to do

I’m a 21 M and there are a lot of things I want to try out, my problem is I am both awful at telling people and nervous about bringing up the possibility of trying it out, I want to try being a sub, Dom, BDSM, public stuff pretty much anything outside of scat. But I know nobody who is either interested in that stuff or interested in me so I’m stuck being in the most adventurous part of my life with no one to explore it with. Do I resign all these things to just a unachievable fantasy or is there something I can do about it?

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