What being a submissive means to Jenna.

# Expand your mind…includes kinky definitions to evolve your understanding.

You can allow yourself complete submission, you can do as you’re told, you can even play a role, but for me being “submissive” is at the core of my essence. It is no longer the act, it is me. I am a natural submissive. This could have developed by nature, by nurture, or by both. I am not sure, but I know what I feel and it is a profound desire that my submissive essence be consumed and controlled by a Dominant being.

What is a submissive or sub by definition? Giving over or yielding to the power or authority of another. The role of the submissive appears to be somewhat simple, but the sub plays a large role in shaping the D/s relationship. The sub’s primary role is to follow her Dom’s directions and to please the Dom. The sub does this without expectation and takes complete pleasure from the fact that the Dom is pleased.

This desire to please is at the root of it all. Just sitting here thinking about my Dominant’s pleasure makes me excited and even aroused. His pleasure can take on many forms, not just sexual, but I still get slightly aroused.

We have a Daddy and Baby Girl D/s dynamic and the thought of being his “Good Girl” makes me wild. I can achieve this through simple activities, like preparing Daddy’s tea the way he likes it every morning to making sure the cat is fed. When I feel like Daddy’s Baby Girl, my mind literally takes on the age of 11, pre-teen, pre-corruption, innocent Baby Girl. All of this freely flows from me and if I analyzed it, may be triggered by different situations or reactions from my Daddy Dom. I am still learning a lot about my submissive self.

Daddy Dom: An affectionate or familiar term of address to a boyfriend or male romantic partner, especially if he is older. A Daddy Dom is the utmost protector of his Baby. He knows all thoughts, fears, desires, and the most tickly spots on his Baby. This relationship is not incestuous, it is more of a play on the Baby’s innocence and guidance from their wise, more powerful Daddy.

Baby Girl: A person who enjoys engaging in age play whether during acts of sex or while performing everyday activities. One who wants to be completely cared for by their Daddy Dominant.

My submissive nature takes on a few other identities as well. I do not play them as a role, they are parts of me that I developed through my D/s relationship. One identity is Daddy’s sex kitten. I love to cuddle my owner and feel an overwhelming sense of calm when he pets my head and hair, just like a kitten.

Kitten: A person who enjoys acting in a sensual, kitten like behavior in order to be caressed and cared for as a pet by their Master.

I have yet to be put in a cage, but looking forward to trying all kinds of kinky experiences with my Daddy…and of course I will share those stories with you.

Another exciting identity that I embody is being Daddy’s Slut. Yes, slut. A degrading word to many women, is a much appreciated word in my world.

Slut: A person, especially a woman, who is sexually promiscuous. A person who submits to their sexual desires and fantasies without care of judgement from the outside world.

“The dirtier the better,” says Daddy. He loves a good Slut, willing to do as she is told, as she is required. I’ve even taken dates with other men, just to be the dirty slut Daddy needed…You can look forward to seeing those stories in the near future…My favorite is when I know Daddy is on his way home and I dress up in slutty lingerie, edge myself (with permission), so then I am dripping wet and willing when Daddy arrives.

He loves coming home to a wet and ready cunt. Someday, I will have a second submissive woman to surprise Daddy. He has a fantasy I need to fulfill.**..Sexy, submissive ladies please message me if interested…**So to say the least, I love being called a slut. Yes it can be degrading, but it’s hot and it makes my Daddy desire me even more, which pleases him more, which in turn ultimately pleases me.

Basically, at my submissive core, I am a slave. The ownership part really gets me off, but this feeling of being property can only come from the right Owner.

Slave: A person who is the property of and wholly subject to another and made to provide unpaid labor. The slave is a higher gradient of submissiveness in D/s. It can be as simple as the slave serves and the Master receives. The slave relinquishes all control to the Master because the slave knows the Master always has her well-being in mind. A slave still carries a strong sense of self-worth and should know her limits.

To be “owned” feels like my Owner has imprinted himself within me. To be taken, but never against my will. I allow my Owner to possess me willingly and it gives me the most freedom I have ever felt in my life.

Call it old fashioned, call it ridiculous, call it whatever you like, but know that I am not impacted by others judgement. When you release judgement of others, you allow for freedom from the judgement they place on you.

My D/s relationship has allowed for me to find myself, to find what makes me happy, and to follow it without hesitation.

Happiness is contagious, now go spread it.

xx Jenna

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