It has been my routine to edge, sometimes for 60+ minutes, prior to heading to the gym for cardio and swim. I always dress commando so that my fully aroused state is evident.
Edging puts my penis in the mood to get erect and stay erect, to ooze pre-ejaculate and to provide some eye candy for those who enjoy seeing other’s penis when they are in the showers, or in the sauna and/or steam room. Additionally, the aroused state just feels so excellent.
Sometimes, I edge several times prior to going such as a middle of the night erection that awakens me, always, though, with morning wood. Edging has fed my interest in exhibitionism for sure. Doesn’t matter if I’m going to the nude beach or even the spa. Something about a penis that has been edged exudes eroticism. The truism about 80% of communication being non-verbal is evident when others view my semi or fully erect penis. The difference is night and day. If I haven’t edged, I’m not much in the mood to see and be seen. Quite the contrary, though, when I have edged. Then, I need to see others, it’s always a treat to watch their body reaction to seeing my edged penis. Certainly some straight guys are uncomfortable when they react with an unexpected erection while others just go with it.
So often, when I am with others, they will want to masturbate to orgasm. Frequently they want to see me ejaculate. I have to explain that ejaculation is often a let down. I can squirt as much as the best of them (as you of course know, it just builds up) but being and staying aroused is my candy.
Prior to COVID, I was in the gym at the YMCA in NYC first thing in the a.m. when they open which I do whenever I happened to be in the city. Most locations are either newish or have been updated so that the facilities are great, pool(s), open showers, which I prefer, Finnish sauna, steam room, spin, rowing machines, cardio, weights, you name it.
I have made a few friends there though mostly it’s a place to keep fit and chill out after either by myself or with others.
One of my friends I met when I was shooting New York Fashion Week. He is in the business too, I discovered, when we chatted in the sauna. He works for an agency and I shoot many of their models (Gigi, Bella, Taylor, etc.) as it happens.
At first, I didn’t really pay much attention to the fact that he would periodically stroke his dick while we chatted; he would glance down at mine briefly. Plenty of guys do in the sauna and steam room. I always sit on my towel or lay on it so that I’m always “visible” for those who like to see others. As it happens, he does this too. The more time we have spent together the more I realize that he spends the majority of his time looking at my penis versus any others who might be visible.
He’s gay, tells me about his relationships, his challenges at work, his dog, his walks in Riverside Park, etc. He knows I’m straight (bi-curious), married, kids, dogs too. I actually view it as a compliment that he gets erect looking at my penis. In fact, ever since puberty, great tits and great cocks both can give me erections. That is just how I’m wired. Having someone stare is reinforcement that my presence is appreciated.
This particular morning I had just finished swimming laps and in the sauna I lay down my towel and stretched out. If I’m there by myself, I will work my kegels so that I’m fully erect. It’s always fun to see the reaction when someone enters and sees it because it is a bit uncommon.
I generally keep my eyes lidded so that the person viewing can’t tell and I act like I don’t know they are there.
After a couple minutes a single mid age gent walks in and right away says:
nice cock.
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S guys are a dime a dozen, seriously overweight and lecherous. I nod and ignore him.
Next two students enter. They look like twins though obviously not but same general appearance. Both are sporting buzz cut hair, same general build. Probably 19 or 20. Maybe a bit old to still be twinks. Probably attend Columbia which isn’t far away. Maybe Drama majors.
The one sits and looks at my penis. He is just a foot away. His penis is a great size, probably in the six – seven range. Smooth shaved.
I mean he is obviously obsessed and makes no bones about the fact either. After a minute of this, I don’t know when such obvious attention has caused me to get so hard. My penis is hovering above my stomach without me doing anything. I’m at least a bit amused by my reaction.
The other buzz cut stands directly in front of the mid age gent. He takes off his towel and puts it around his shoulders. I’m thinking to myself the distance between them is provocative if not rude.
He’s only a few inches away from him. The standing one begins to masturbate. In fairly short order he is fully erect. He’s about six, smooth shaved including his balls. Nice physique. Fit.
There are four of us in there at this point, The last guy turned off the interior lights when he walked in. Now it is light enough in the sauna to see clearly, by the lights in the shower room that shine through the front window but dark enough people outside can’t see in. The guy seated grabs the guy standing by his cock and begins to stroke him while stroking himself too.
On the one hand I’m thinking, this is a public place and these guys are being so bold and yet I was also thinking this is pretty interesting and it’s free entertainment. I was also really aroused by this blatantly erotic behavior. You might have been too though the retelling of my experience doesn’t compare with the sexual energy and tension of the moment.
The one getting the hj periodically turns to gauge my reaction as does his friend. It was truly an erotic experience and I have to admit I was totally erect from the beginning such that I had pre-ejaculate ooze most of the time. This went on with occasionally interrupted moments (people would walk by the sauna and though the lights were off no chances were being taken) for twenty minutes.
Having these guys stare at my cock while one was getting a handjob and the other was waiting for his turn was such a crazy turn on. My penis was so hard I couldn’t believe it. Plus, it kept twitching and oozing. In my mind I’m wondering where is this going next. Given this certainly violates the gym’s policy and all of us would get tossed out if the staff happened by, I found myself rooted to the bench.
I was sorely tempted to masturbate but the more I thought about it the more I realized the voyeur aspects were far more titillating. The two friends noticed that I changed from not watching to watching like I was at the movies. The sitting friend moved closer to me. Both he and I were completely erect and he was staring more at my penis now that he was closer such that he could clearly see the thread of pre-ejaculate that had begun to wet the bench floor in front of me.
After what seemed like fifteen minutes or so, it wasn’t, more like nine or ten, another gent walks in and I chose this time to make my exit.
The latest arrival took my spot; as we passed each other he was like whoa dude as he saw I was fully erect.
After spending time in the showers, I moved to the steam room. My friend joined me a minute later and we chatted about Fashion Week. My penis was so erect it ached and the showers had not stemmed the flow of pre-ejaculate. I could tell he was far more intrigued than usual by his frequency of glances. He openly began to masturbate versus the few strokes previously. We kept talking because that is what we do. I had to leave to shoot a show but paused in the middle of the room, facing him, for about a minute because I knew he was close to his orgasm and didn’t want him to lose his eye candy too soon.
Maybe you have had something interesting to share like this…
Note: My penis at the time (for a reference ) can be seen on my profile for interested individuals (keeping to the guidelines of this sub).
Source: reddit.com/r/sexystories/comments/j7in0w/edging_before_my_gym_workout_bi_exhm_then_sauna
Have you thought out what would happen if your friend took you into his hand?