I’ve been sexually active since I was 16 and never had planned anal sex. There were a couple of times I accidentally slipped it in the wrong hole and once gave my girlfriend a legit seizure (she was epileptic) and the other time I thought she was going to faint from the pain.
I’ve ALWAYS wanted to have anal sex but just didn’t ever think that would be a reality especially with my wife which really had little or no interest in the act at all. Couple that with my generous size (I cant fit into a toilet paper roll fully erect) I had given up all hope but IT FINALLY HAPPENED AND IT WAS SO GOOD FOR BOTH OF US!
I want to talk to you guys who have been or maybe still are in my shoes and how to introduce anal to your partner THE RIGHT WAY.
First: COMMUNICATE! I’ve been extremely honest with my wife that anal is something I would like for us to try even if it was only once. If she didn’t like it I would respect her boundaries and we would be done I want to talk to you guys who have been or maybe still are in my shoes and how to introduce anal to your partner THE RIGHT WAY.
MAKE IT NORMAL: Your lady doesn’t like anal because society has told them it was wrong for such a long time. They need to know that your not grossed out by it. I did this by licking my ladies brown eye every chance I got. She loved it and it drove her crazy.
MAKE IT ASSOCIATED WITH PLEASURE. I never have sex with my lady unless she has 2-3 big Os from oral. I recently learned that having her ride my face is a real turn on. I’ve been fingering her booty hole during this time. Add butt play to regular Orgasmic play!! She has to associate butt play with over the top orgasms…..
Finally one night she asked for not one finger but two. She asked for something larger than the biggest anal training plug I had. She was begging for my cock.
I put it in slowly. She asked for me to put it deeper and faster. I ended up railing her doggy style before I knew it.
She came so hard with me inside. When we finished she had me promise we would do it again soon. She said she liked it so much more than vaginal intercourse. Maybe we’ll be back door exclusive!? I’m down either way!!!
Drop me DMs for any questions I didn’t cover here!!
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ii6zpn/wife_had_anal_for_the_first_time_and_loved_it
Awesome man. Great patience