How awful is it to have sex with someone who you are safe with, you trust and all, but there is no love and (s)he is not your type. Like, maybe really old. Or very far. Or, what have you.
Have you ever done it? What was it like?
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/i37xxi/what_is_it_like_to_have_sex_with_someone_you
It sucks, feels liek a chore and kinda have to picture somebody or something else to finish or fake it. You also lose more intimacy each time after the attraction fades or is lost, imo, as there is less and less time and energy and care put into it.
Like slightly better masturbation.
My effort was minimal at best because there was no attraction or passion there and I just wanted him to get off so I could be done with it. It kind of felt like I was paying a fine with my body or something. Don’t recommend.