Hello, my name is Megan and this is a short story of when I introduced my boyfriend Bobby to bondage. A little about our relationship and how we met- I am 26 years old and he is a year younger. I met him over the summer as we were both spending the day at the lake on a beautiful summer day. I saw him there in his bathing suit, he was short, thin and extremely cute; just my type. I knew how attractive I was in my black black swimsuit so I felt very confident as I approached him and sparked up a conversation. He was quite shy but we hit it off immediately and I invited him out for dinner. Looking down at him I could see a submissive look in his eye as he probably was a little intimidated. From his perspective he must have been very dumbfounded being hit on by a woman taller than him. As cheesy as it sounds it truly was love at first sight!
A little about my physical appearance – I am tall, muscular, medium length black hair and green eyes. I often don’t wear makeup or if I do, I try to go for a natural look. I present as strong yet feminine. My measurements are a robust 36D/28/40. I have an athletic build, broad shoulders and strong longs from all the squats I do. At 5’11 tall and almost 170 pounds I am both taller and heavier than him. I go the gym frequently and I am definitely stronger than him. Most girls would not want a smaller and weaker boyfriend, but me? I love it. I love being both physically and mentally stronger than my sub boyfriend. A boy being short and skinny enough for me to physically overpower him is like a wet dream. Maybe it comes from the lifeguard in me and feeling the need to protect people weaker than I am.
A little about my personality – I am confident and assertive. I am a little extroverted but sometimes I am quiet and observant. I think of myself as a compassionate leader in that I am very comfortable being charge but I am empathetic towards the feelings of others. Now I am just bragging but I have been told I am very intelligent. So on the flip side I prefer shy guys and don’t mind me taking the initiative in a lot of situations.
Personality comes first but I must confess I have a fetish for guys smaller than me. I am going to just ramble a bit because this dynamic really is important to me from a sexual standpoint and in a female domination relationship. I prefer men who are shorter and thinner than me; I always have, my entire life. I have always had a domme mentality so being taller is nice in a lot of situations. Being the big spoon is easier, long arms and legs make pinning a smaller boy down pretty easy. I love hugging him as his face gets pushed into my boobs. As a domme I love having that strong physically imposing presence over a smaller guy. Having to look up to address me is enough to make him feel instantly subby, haha.
Upon meeting each other we were both virgins which made our first night together very special! We had sex for the first time last week and I was on top of him and in control. I pinned his arms above his head with a schoolgirl pin and held him down. Then I did things like kiss him and tell him in a stern voice to suck on my breasts. I figure that after us having sex he picked up immediately that I am the dominant type.
Since I explained my fetish for small & shy guys now onto my bondage fetish. Every since I was a young girl I fantasized about tying up boys so I was definitely born a domme. I am an experienced rope rigger and really love to tie him up on a regular basis. He is a rope bunny and really enjoys being tied up, but dare I say that I enjoy tying him up even more. For me bondage is very erotic and a must have for my sex life. But I also do love everyday bondage for cuddling purposes and he just looks so damn cute all tied up and helpless. I am a very tactile domme so I just love feeling him when he’s tied down.
Here is our first of may bondage experiences and when I completely established our female led relationship dynamic. At this point we had only been dating for about 3 months. It was about 9pm on a Friday night and we were at my place just cuddling on the couch and watching tv. I am wearing blue jeans and a white t-shirt and he is in shorts and a t-shirt. I am the big spoon and he is the little spoon as usual. I start feeling him up and ask him “Honey, may I remove your clothes so that I can fondle you better?” He replies “Yes Ma’am.” With that I have him stand up and immediately take off his shirt and shorts leaving him in just his underwear. I then wrap my arms and legs around him spooning him on the couch in a possessive manner.
I start rubbing my hands all over his stomach and chest for a bit. I stop and let my hands be still with one on top of his underwear. This of course gives him a boner. The movie Death and the Maiden is on and there is this scene where Sigourney Weaver ties Ben Kingsley to a chair and tells him to “shut up bitch”, she then takes off her panties and stuffs them into his mouth before wrapping brown packing tape around his head for an effective gag.
Seeing this scene really turns me on and I see that he is pitching a tent in his underwear. So I grab his junk and whisper into his ear “I would love to do that to you. You’d look so cute tied up and gagged.” He responds with “what happens after you tie me up?” To which I say “Let me show you” I turn off the television and take his hand leading him to my bedroom.
I lie him down on the bed forcefully but gently, and get some rope and duct tape out of my closet. I take a step towards him with the rope but then pause … I am feeling very excited and a little nervous. I take a deep breath to try and collect myself. In this moment I am very open with him as I explain to him with my voice quivering a little “Ok baby, I need to tell you something. I have loved bondage since I was a young girl and ever since we met I have been wanting to tie you up. But I have no desire to see you in pain, whips or that kind of thing … I just want to tie you up, gag you and fuck the shit out of you; and humiliate you.” As I finish the last sentence my voice changes from sweet and nervous to assertive & aggressive.
I take another deep breath and pause to compose myself once more. I then ask him in a very sweet tone “Do you want me to do this you sweetie?” And he replies “Yes Mistress. I trust you completely.” Hearing this brings a smile to my face as I am relieved and say to him “Oh, thank God. You have no idea how horny I am right now.” I wasn’t even close to kidding, I was burning up inside wanting to tie him up and use him for my pleasure.
I waste no time and tie his hands together and then tie them securely to the headboard. I smirk and laugh a little at the nice tent he is pitching and then I pull off his underwear and tie his legs together and to the bedpost. He is a sight to behold as I now have his naked body tied up in the I bondage position securely to my bed. I just stand there looking at him for several minutes and then start running my hands all over his body. I do this for a while and then lean in giving him a long and delightful kiss. Then I take a step back and say “I think it is time for me to take off my pants and shirt.” I take off my jeans and then take off my shirt in a seductive manner. I look absolutely amazing standing there before him in just my black bra and panties I brought from Target.
Confidence is beaming in me as I boost my ego knowing the power of my strength and femininity. I smile and look at him and love the sight of his short and slender naked body tied to my bed helplessly before me. We both know I am a 100% stronger than him and I wear the pants in this relationship. I feel fucking beautiful as I get on top of him and while straddling him press both my hands against his mouth for a tight and secure handgag. My hands are strong and I am having a power rush as I look down at him and I can see the utter submissive look on his face and in his eyes. And by contrast he looks into my authoritative expression on my face and in my eyes. I just love the feeling of his mouth and lips trapped under my hands in my powerful handgag.
In this position I say with a commanding yet steady tone “This is what femdom is all about. I am your Mistress and you are my bitch. I am smarter than you, taller than you, stronger than you, older than you and hornier than you. We both know all of these things to be true. You are my fuck toy tonight, my sex toy, my rope bunny, you are mine and I will do whatever I want with you. Your body and your mind belong to me, I am in control but with great power comes great responsibility. I will have tied you up, I will gag you, I will humiliate and fuck you … but I think you will enjoy it too.
I knew you were the submissive type ever since I laid eyes on you. I can see the submission in your eyes right now as you can see the dominance in my eyes. You are my bitch so I get to tie you up, gag you and use you whenever I please. But as a domme I am also responsible for your health and happiness. I will take care of you and protect you and do what is best for you. As any good Mistress would … do you understand sweetie?” He nods his head yes without hesitation.
I remove my hands from his mouth and start making out with him. I kiss him like there is no tomorrow, like tonight is the last time I will ever see him. I switch the pace of kissing between long and slow passionate kisses to short and brief pecks on the lips. I kiss him in every way I can think of and finally finish him off with a very long and very passionate french kiss. Our tongues more than touch and play with each other, and I exchange my saliva with his. Finally I release his lips from mine and a complete sense of euphoria is just pulsing through me.
I get off of him and leave the room briefly saying “be right back.” I come back with a water bottle and ask him “thirsty baby?” He nods yes. I sit on the bed next to him and cradle his head in my hand as I help him drink. This right here is quintessential gentle female domination.
After he is done drinking I have some water for myself. I then step back and just look at him for several minutes with a big smile on my face once again taking in the sight of his bound and naked body on my bed. I lean in close and whisper “baby you look so yummy right now tied up and helpless. Be a good little boy and squirm for me, I want to make sure you are secure.” He obliges and of course he cannot escape even if he wanted to because I am an expert in rope bondage. Seeing him there tied up, helpless and squirming puts me completely into dommespace.
I giggle and say “you look so cute tied up, squirming, helpless.” I pause for a minute as my green eyes look into his, then reach down and softly stroke his face with my hand and say “bondage is a special kind of therapy for both the domme and the sub. Are you enjoying yourself honey, do you feel good right now?” He immediately replies “Yes Mistress. I trust and love you Megan.”
Hearing these words I get visibly emotional and tear up a little. I wipe the tears from my eyes and say “I love you too babe.” I lean in and kiss him softly and delicately at first. Like his lips are very fragile and I want to make them feel safe. Then I pick up the kissing intensity and force my tongue into his delicious mouth until our tongues touch and play with each other. After I have my fill of making out with him, I lift my lips off of his and just lay on his naked and bound body for about 10 minutes or so. I feel him up with my hands and lay my head on his chest as if listening to his heart beat as we both just lie there in silence.
It seems as though both of us are afraid to say something and break the moment but finally I break the silence, by saying softly “You have such a pretty mouth but now it’s time to gag you my dear.” To which he instinctively replies “Yes Mistress.” I smile at him and can’t contain my giddiness as I need to take this to the next level. By now my panties are somewhat wet from my arousal and I know exactly where I am going to put them for the next couple hours.
I get off him and slide my black panties off my legs. I tell him sternly “open up bitch,” he obliges and with purpose I stuff my panties into his mouth and wrap duct tape around his head a few times for an effective panty tape gag. Surprised by this he makes ‘mmmppphhh’ noises into the gag. I tell him “sorry if my panties are a bit wet but seeing you tied up like this makes me very horny.” I climb on top of him and take his penis into my vagina. I then take off my bra exposing my lovely breasts.
I stay there for a while keeping his penis trapped inside my pussy. Finally I say in amusement “I am sorry baby, you did not get a chance to taste and suck on my lovely boobies. Honestly that was not intentional as I really do love having my breasts sucked on but now it’s too late since you’re gagged so well.” He lets out a gagged response “mmmppphhh” in genuine frustration.
I seriously did not intend to tape his mouth before having my boobs sucked. But now with the situation as it is I have to tease him. So I press my breasts against his taped mouth. I keep my boobs against the tape as I say laughingly “Sorry babe, you can’t taste but atleast you can see my boobs. This is mutual torture for both of us because I would really like your lips sucking on my nipples right now. Your sweet delicate lips sucking my breasts, ooohhh I could orgasm just thinking about it.” He responds with a loud “mmmmmppppphhhhh” and struggles against the ropes. I say “My God, your gagged noises get me so wet. Seeing the frustration in your eyes, feeling you struggle to get free. Fuck, I am going to fucking fuck you you bondage slut. Not a fucking thing you can do or say about it until I am done with you. Fuck, I want you so badly right now babe.”
I then cradle his head with both my hands and kiss his taped mouth for a bit. I ask him “how do my panties taste sweetheart?” Again he replies with ‘mmmppphhh’ and I say “that’s nice sweetie.” I feel his cock starting to twitch uncontrollably inside my pussy. I whisper in his ear “baby I am going to make all of our fantasies come true. I love you darling.” And he replies with ‘mmmppphhh’ which I interpreted him as saying I love you too.
I then rock back and forth and put my hands on his chest as my breasts bounce up & down. This feeling of pleasure is coursing through me and I am in a blissful state. I start to moan a little and mix between shallow and deep thrusts. It does not take long for him to cum inside me but I just keep on riding him. My moaning intensifies and I eventually bring myself to several glorious orgasms. His penis trapped inside my vagina is exactly where it belongs and feels so wonderful. I sit upright for awhile just fondling my breasts while looking down at his submissive face. I must say the duct tape really brings out the submissiveness in his eyes and I could just enjoy this moment forever. But eventually I release his penis from my vagina and bend down kissing his taped mouth passionately. I must say that I definitely have a fetish for kissing and licking tape when attached to his mouth.
I tell him in a giddy tone “Baby this is the best night of my life. If it were up to me I would tie you up everyday. You’re such a good boy but I am not done with you yet.” His eyes got real big upon hearing this. I kiss his forehead with a soft kiss.
I head to the bathroom and bring back a warm wet washcloth. I wash every inch of him legs, stomach, chest, arms and face. Then I wash his penis very gently. I softly blow on his penis for a few minutes and then say “I am going to take a shower and freshen up.”
I go to the bathroom and turn the water turn on, I pee and once the water is hot I hop in the shower. I must have been there for almost 30 minutes and to him that must feel like forever. I thoroughly clean my lady parts and whole body as I smile and laugh just thinking about him still naked, tied up and gagged on my bed. After showering I dry myself off and come back to bed wearing a soft gray nightgown. I get on the bed and put one hand on each of his legs. I look at him and say sweetly “Let’s play a game dear. I am going to suck you off, and if you cum before 30 minutes is up then you will remain tied up and have to give me oral sex in return. Fellatio for cunnilingus is a fair trade after all.”
I know he will lose this game and if I wanted to I could have certainly made him cum in less than 10 minutes. But that is not my style and I intend to savor the moment. So I gently stroke his dick with both hands, playing with his balls, shaft, frenulum, head and tip. His penis isn’t very big and it looks so cute in my large and strong hands. Yes, I am almost six inches taller than him so my hands are much larger, neither one of us is ashamed of this.
But like I was saying his penis is somewhat small but I adore and love every inch of it! Finally I lower my mouth onto his dick and start with the blowjob. I suck up and down, long and slow. Every now and then I remove my mouth from his dick and just lick the shaft, head and tip. When we arrive at the 25 minute mark my sucking intensifies and he explodes in my mouth at probably the 28 mark. He lets out a pleasured “mmmmmmppppphhhh” through the gag and I swallow his cum and then suck & lick his shaft for good measure.
I say to him “Mmmmm, drinking a boy’s cum is good for a woman.” I then take a drink of water and tell him gleefully “now it’s your turn sweetie. The gag really brings out the color in your eyes and you look so cute and helpless, but guess I’ll have to remove it now.” I carefully peel off the tape from his head and mouth and take my now saliva soaked panties out of his mouth. I get the washcloth and wash his face and then have him drink some water.
I say “that gag was on for a pretty long time Bobby, I almost forgot how beautiful your mouth is. Time to put it to good use. Go as fast or as slow as you like and I’ll cum when I am ready. Oh and I want you to know I took my time in the shower washing my pussy so it is nice and fresh for you.” With that I take off my nightgown and drop it by the bed. I straddle my pussy on his face and hold his head up against it and he gets to work. He did not finesse it too much and just kept licking my clitoris at a steady pace until I let out a series of load moans and orgasmed all over his face.
I looked at the clock and said “21 minutes. Good boy, you made me cum faster than I made you.” I take my pussy off his face and say “your lips really fit in well with my vulva. Now let’s give my other lips a taste.” Again I engage in kissing him for quite a long time, I had plenty of energy but he was completely spent at this point. So he just let me use his mouth as I pleased … and I was more than fine with this.
After I sucked his lips dry, I looked at the clock and realized it was approaching 1 am. I say “You have been in bondage for over 3 hours. I better adjust the position a little and release you from this bed.” He was pleased to hear this as he looked ready to be untied but was so deep in subspace would not request it.
I untied him from the bed and removed the ropes from his wrists and ankles. I massaged his arms and wrists and made sure that he was feeling alright. After checking in with him I said “Ok darling, it is time to cuddle. I really love bondage cuddling so can I tie you up a little bit longer?” And he replied “Yes Mistress.”
I say “Good boy. Now I am not going to gag you, so let me know if at any point you want out.” I then rolled him onto his stomach, got the rope and sat on top of him. With his naked body under mine I started tying his hands together behind his back. I made sure to tie them securely but somewhat comfortably. I did the safety check of a finger under the loop to make sure his circulation was fine. Then I tied his ankles together. I say “Babe I just realized I have not taken any photos of this special night. Is it alright if I put you into a secure hogtie just long enough for some sexy photos?” He said “Yes Mistress.”
I got some more rope and tied his knees together and his arms a little tighter together at the elbows. Then I finished off the very secure hogtie by attaching his ankles close to his hands. I got my camera and took photos of his naked and hogtied body from different angles. I got out my red bandana and told him to open up as I cleave gagged me. I also blindfolded him for the first time that night. The purpose of the tight hogtie, gag and blindfold was purely aesthetic as I really enjoy the sight of him like this, tied up & gagged and completely helpless and at my mercy.
I adjusted him onto his side so that his penis was fully exposed. I absolutely love these pictures as his stomach, gag, blindfold and penis were all in plain view. This really felt and looked like he was my kidnapped kinky boy toy at this point. I took a short video and said “Here is my helpless boy, looking so cute all tied up and gagged.” As he struggled and “mmmppphhhed” for effect. I left him like that and then took my time uploading my camera pictures onto my computer. I named the file Bobby in Bondage as there would surely be many more photos & videos with him tied up and helpless to come. I regretted not taking video from earlier as it would have been nice to document the first time I had him tied up and gagged for sex but there will be plenty more of those moments to come. I put the camera away and shut off the laptop.
I remove his gag and blindfold and release him from his hogtie. Leaving him naked on the bed with his feet tied together and hands still tied behind his back. I turn off the lights and come to bed snuggling up against him. I sit up against the headboard and cradle him in my strong arms. I hold his mouth to my breasts and say “Ok baby now it’s time to suck my nipples. Lick my breasts, suck on them, kiss them, whatever you like just use that mouth of yours to give me pleasure.” He does all of these things as I let out some soft moans. This is such a relaxing moment for me and as he sucks and licks my nipples I feel very protective of him. Hard to describe how good it feels as he lies there tied up in my arms sucking on my breasts but it’s kind of like the relieving and pleasant sensation the comes from when you really have to pee and then you do so.
After the breast sucking session I spoon him with his naked body against mine, my legs wrapped over him and my breasts on his back. I kiss his neck and whisper sweet nothings in his ear holding him close. I can’t resist feeling him up and fondling his dick. He eventually shoots a few loads of cum from my soft and half-hearted handjob. I kiss his neck and press my nose against him and after a few minutes say – “I’ll clean up your jizz and then it’s time for us to get some sleep.”
I get off the bed and clean the semen off the sheets. Then I hold his penis in my hand and gave it a kiss goodnight. I get back into bed and wrap my arms around him and say “goodnight sweetie. I love you baby.” And he replies “I love you too.” Shortly after he drifts off to sleep still tied up in my loving embrace. I remove the ropes and untie him before I fall asleep. I do this gently and manage to free him without waking him. He must have been in bondage for almost 6 hours or so.
We both wake around noon time and spend the day just going for a walk outside. When evening arrives I suggest a cfnm bondage dinner and movie date. I assure him he will be tied up for less time than last night and he agrees to this. I am wearing a white floral print midi dress for this day. He removes his clothes and gets naked for our date.
I have him sit down on a chair in the kitchen and tie him up. I make sure he is tied very securely with his hands tied behind his back and his stomach and chest tied to the chair. Some more rope over his shoulders and knees and ankles tied together and also roped to the chair. I tie a knot in my bandana and have him open his mouth as I tie the bandana around his mouth for an effective cleave gag. Then I mostly just ignore him and light a few candles to set the mood as I make spaghetti to be served with wine.
When the food is ready I sit down at the table and eat in front of him admiring his bound body. Seeing him there all naked, tied up and gagged makes me hungry in more ways than one. After I finish eating I remove his gag and put a bib around him as it could be a bit messy. I feed him spaghetti and have him drink some wine until he is full.
After dinner I untie him from the chair and carry him bound bridal style to the couch. I put in the movie Cold Comfort Farm, which is a female led relationship romantic comedy. I have his hands tied behind his back and ankles tied together as I canoodle him on the couch for some cfnm bondage cuddling. About midway through the movie he asks me “May I please pee pee?” and I reply “no problem.” I untie his ankles but left his wrists still tied behind his back. I gently tug on his dick leading him to the bathroom. I knew at some point he would have to pee and I do like a little humiliation play.
To his surprise I do not let him pee right away and tell him “Darling, since you interrupted the movie I have to gag you for the rest of it.” He nods and says “Yes Mistress.” I take off my panties from underneath my dress and shove them into his mouth and tell him “don’t spit them out.” I then grab my red bandana and gag him securing my panties in his mouth.
I tell him “ladies first” and sit down on the toilet to go pee, washing my hands after relieving myself. I tell him “Ok sweet pea now your Mistress will help her little boy pee pee.” I lift up the toilet seat and hold his penis steady so that he can urinate into the toilet. Again I wash my hands after he has peed. We come back to the couch as I tie his ankles together and retie his hands behind his back just to make sure he is secure. I cuddle his lovely tied up and gagged body and we finish the rest of the movie. Once the movie is over I turn off the tv and tell him “You were such a good boy staying quiet and not cumming during the movie. Is it alright with you if I just hold you some more like this. With you naked, tied up and gagged in my arms in the peace and quiet of the night?” He replies “mmmppphhh” which I cannot tell means yes or no but I really don’t care because he is not going anywhere yet.
I cuddle him against my dress and have my hand around his balls & penis for some time. I then whisper in his ear “As soon as you cum I will untie and release you for the rest of the night.” But after telling him this I remove my hand from his penis and wrap my arms around his chest and legs around him so that his penis cannot get any friction from the couch or my body. He tries to wiggle free of my hold and lets out some frustrated mmmppphhhs but he tires quickly. I hold him like this for almost an hour but eventually the feeling of my body against his and the sensation of being bound is enough for him to cum a ruined orgasm. I then immediately untie him and remove his gag and tell him he is the best boyfriend a girl could have. Later that night I fuck him vanilla style on the bed without bondage but of course with me in control and as usual on top riding him cowgirl style during sex.
Well that concludes our first bondage experience together and how it became such a magical part of our relationship! Sunday was just a typical vanilla day in which we just relaxed vanilla style and enjoyed each other’s company :). We have been together for over 3 years now and bondage has been a regular and important part of our everyday relationship. I absolutely love tying him up and he enjoys being bound. The experience still excites us both!
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/enue33/my_bf_tied_up_for_a_romantic_weekend_fm_tied_up