Genuine Question – Where is a good place to find erotica videos (ie non cheesy porn?)

Hi Guys,

Sorry, hope this is the right place to post this, if not let me know where is..
My wife and I are trying to find a good source of erotica videos, we’ve tried conventional porn and found it to be too off-putting / funny / carzy noisy / cheesy / unauthentic / ect..

Dont mind dirty stuff just want less cheese