I’m a 26 YO M2F transwoman and a freshman attorney working in a large lawfirm. The partners at my firm are well aware of my gender identity although we all agreed that I preferred to not be outed to the rest of the firm staff as my goal has always to live my life consistent with my gender.
I transitioned at 19 and have been on hormone therapy for 7 years. My transition has gone very well, no one ever realizes my beginnings as a genetic male.
3 weeks ago, a partner in the firm started showing interest in me, in a way which got my radar tingling. I say this because the partners know my past; the complete me. I was shocked and of course flattered that this gorgeous man was showing interest in me.
He’s about 30 years my senior and a strong daddy type black male with high cheekbones and a strong brow and shaved head.
So I guess I instinctively began wearing slightly shorter skirts to work and purchased a couple bras with a size smaller cup to project my breasts just a tad bit in order to keep this beautiful mans attention and it worked.
One evening at work, he invited me to have drinks after work and I couldn’t contain my excitement. We had a few drinks to losen up and I, desperately wanting to know if this was a dream or real, asked him if he was aware of who I was “genetically”. He said he was, but that he was also insanely attracted to me and just wanted to see if there might be some chemistry between us.
I was so excited. Later he asked me over to his house, we made out for what seemed like two hours then had amazing sex. I left his house early the next morning to go home and clean up, do my makeup and put on clean clothes, then back to work.
He was just as friendly at work the next day. That evening, he invited me over again. I assumed he would so I brought a change of clothes and underwear and some makeup with me in a bag to work that day.
We had amazing sex again, I slept there and we had great sex for breakfast as well.
That went on for about a full week. Then he suddenly turned cold. When I brought it up at work after 3 days of him not showing me any attention, he told me that he was concerned because the partners expressed some disappointment with him for seeing an employee. I have been emotionally devastated but I know we have a policy on the issue so I can’t do anything to solve the issue. I’ve considered looking for another practice to work for so I can continue our relationship but I know it’s too soon and I’m reacting emotionally and not rationally. It’s too soon in my career to consider quitting and I love the type of work I’m doing.
All that said, this man is super hot and he seems to be infatuated with me too. Before I transitioned, I was living as a gay man and I had all the dick you could dream about. Since I’ve realized I’m a woman and transitioned, I don’t date near as often and I more often than not hook up with men who fetishize me instead of guys who just are attracted to me.
It’s a difficult life and I guess I’m just wondering how far this relationship could go if I pursued it.
What would yall do for the great dick? Pass and keep my job or find a new job and go for it?