*(Let me start off by saying my spelling, grammar/use of tense etc is terrible, apologies in advance!) I posted this is reddit – bdms-video, but thought I’d post here too. This is kind of a long post, but I’m desperate for something to watch or read, so thought i may as well put everything in & people dont recommend things i dont like.*
**Hi :)**
I’m a 26 year old girl from london. Forever, thought I that I hated like Porn, but turns out I like (softcore? / Vanilla?) bdsm erotica & bdsm porn. My own personal fantasy is military bdsm (especially during wwi/ wwii/cold war era). So am now looking for more. any good recommendations for bdsm literature/erotica or video? (I dont mind paying).
**I like watching/reading:**
– Dominant Male/ Submissive female. Him being really assertive, good use of vocabulary
– anything with a plot, so if it’s a movie or book or something leading up to the sexual bit that’s great. but if not and it goes straight into the sexual/porn aspect, then thats fine too.
– Slapping (especially on the face), biting, pinching, whipping, use of sexy toys like vibrators, canning, degrading/dirty talk, blindfolds, throat grabbing, gagging either with dick or toys/equipment, power/control play, bondage, being held down, being tied up/ neck collar, oral, being locked up/caged, being forced to be humiliated e.g having to lick a boot or something. Etc
– if the man is in uniform or position of authority that’d be a bonus, e.g Police officer, military, and is interrogating a prisoner, war captive etc
**I’m not a major fan of, but tolerate:**
– not a big fan of anal but am happy to skip over it, if its not the main focus of the book and there are other things too.
– I dont like, when they have another woman being dominant, like a second mistress etc. or just women being dom in general. But if the main domination is from the guy then its ok.
**Automatic Turn Offs:**
– I do not like looking/reading about “young/teen girls”. I’d prefer if the girl looks atleast 20. E.g I hate reading headlines like “X person bangs innocent young teen” -__- . I’ve seen a lot of them on pornhub etc.
– Absolutely no submissive males.
– more hardcore stuff like, blood/cuts, knives/ being dominated or humiliated infront of an audience, I prefer to focus on 2, 3 people max, so absolutely no gangbangs, urine/poo, fisting, rape play, incest /family play, anything to do with animals.
So any help would be beneficial, thank you in advance :) :)
Thanks again, Persie x
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/6m4mhs/mf_fm_not_sure_what_tag_to_use_girl_looking_for