So, I’m new to the concept of anal pleasure, and honestly thought it was a myth that women actually liked it. Then I met my sweet, sexy, skilled, and considerate lover, and, well, let’s just say I’ve learned some things.
Assplay usually comes during round 2. After we’ve had a quickie first time, we fall back into serious making out – long, slow, deep kisses. He gently rubs and kisses my nipples and strokes my back, and eventually pulls my knee up high over his hip for better access between my legs. I’m a squirter, so with that and his semen, my labia is super slippery, and his fingers gliding slowly from my clit, all over my pussy, and down to my perineum feels fantastic. I orgasm most easily from penetration, but usually he’ll gently rub my clit first – firm pressure in tiny, slow circles – to make me cum that way before sliding a finger or 2 inside me. Then he finds my a-spot (if you’re not familiar, it’s like the g-spot’s less-inhibited cousin, further back), and rubs that hard and fast until I flood his hand with natural lubrication that’s almost the consistency of warm honey and I orgasm so intensely, it sometimes makes me cry.
Then, he starts to slowly circle my bum. It’s such a light, feathery touch, it almost tickles. Sometimes he’ll also slowly rub or lick my clit too. I don’t know if it’s actually how it feels or the naughtiness of it, but whatever it is makes me push against him a bit to urge his fingertip inside. I have a super tight butthole, lol, so there’s no plunging in dry! If he’s also been licking my clit, at this point, he’ll often slowly rim my ass. Again, the naughtiness of such a thing heightens the sensation! His warm tongue around that sensitive little opening, oh my.
At this point, we are usually ready to fuck again, doggystyle of course. We have a glass, knobby toy that he will slowly slide into my ass. The cool sensation of the toy and the lube (oh my, yes, lube is important!) is such a contrast to my hot skin, and the invasion of such a private area is such a turn on, that I cum almost immediately when he slides his cock into me. I like my head way down, ass in the air, cheeks spread wide so with each stroke, he also bumps the toy in my ass. The sensation of all those good spots being stimulated from both sides is fantastic.
After I’ve orgasmed a few times, he will slowly pull the toy out, and start to nudge in the plump head of his cock. I should note, my lover has a perfect-sized cock. He’s big, but not too big. I’ve often teased him that if he were the tiniest bit bigger, fucking my ass would hurt to the point of it being impossible for me to enjoy it. As it is, he’s the perfect fit for me.
Here’s where I really learned things. As he slides his cock in, if I slightly push out (yes, like trying to poop, so make sure to clean out thoroughly first!), it goes in much easier, and again, lube is my friend. He goes slow at first while my body adjusts to accommodate him. However, to my huge shock, what will actually make me orgasm is if he goes in deep! I think he’s hitting all the good spots inside my vagina from the “B” side, so to speak. If I relax and concentrate on the pleasure, it eases my perception of the pain too, cuz yes, anal fucking hurts a bit!
The friction of his dick deep in my ass will bring its own, unique orgasm, and he’s always careful to read my body language to do what it takes to get me there. I’m told I’ll often thrust back against him to control the depth and speed, but I really don’t have much recollection of that. I love when he grips my hips to go harder and faster. Although I’m generally multi-orgasmic, I’m only good for one from anal, so after I cum, it’s his turn. He’s more stimulated by very shallow thrusting for anal fucking (there’s little tightness once past the anal sphincter, so nothing to grip his cock), so he will finish with tiny strokes. Lube is important here, since buttholes produce no natural lubrication! He’ll often rub around the rim of my ass too while he fucks me – the stretched out skin is ultra sensitive and it feels great.
Maybe I’m weird, but I love feeling him cum inside me, both vaginally and anally. I love that warm flood of semen, the pulse of his cock, the sudden tense then relaxing of his body. After he cums, he rubs my back and my butt for a long while so we can recover, and only after his erection has subsided a bit does he slide back out. Normally, we are big after sex cuddlers, but anal requires some fairly immediate attention for clean up, so we quickly wash, have a giggle that not only do we have anal sex, but that I like it and ask for it, and snuggle up for a rest before beginning round 3!
Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/6ktpxe/it_is_definitely_possible_for_a_woman_to_enjoy