I’m in my 40s, but my wife and I have many older friends and relatives. It’s so unfair and tragic that society seems to say that once an elderly person loses his or her spouse, that we assume that the remaining spouse also dies sexually. They don’t!

Some of what I’ll say may seem untrue or crazy or weird, but they are all true, and I hope seniors aren’t forgotten as sexual beings.

My wife is a nurse, and she and all the nurses see it as a normal part of their job to relieve sexual tension in a discreet manner when necessary. Whether it’s from a sponge bath or an assisted shower older men, but not only men, often get aroused. A skilled nurse will handle the situation in a quick and discreet manner. And finally, quiet little vibes are given to senior women in need.

Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/4d2aa1/im_in_my_40s_but_my_wife_and_i_have_many_older